So I was sitting here, watching vids on the computer...

@ElicBxn (64169)
United States
December 19, 2012 10:12pm CST
and enjoying the remains of my dinner... I had my right elbow resting on the desk, and my forearm raised... When, I felt a tickle run down my arm... I have this fly doing its thing in the room, and while I didn't see it near me, I gave my arm a shake, thinking the fly had landed on me. The tickle went away and a bead landed on my plate... A seed bead... A blue seed bead like I made my sister's Christmas present out of... Now, I know I dropped a few beads while I was making it, but none of them landed on my desk, because I would've seen them and picked them up. I have had this problem of things disappearing and reappearing for a long time. We call the effect "the Black Hole." I've discovered that if it "eats" something that we value, the best thing to do is act like you don't care and it will spit it out again. And once in a great while, it spits it out in a strange way... like on my arm/plate... You have a "Black Hole" at your house?
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@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
20 Dec 12
My black hole is actually my mind, I think. I do enjoy your discussions and yes, I had some stuff disappear for about two days, it is back now, when I was not looking for it. Of course, now it is time to go to bed.
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@devonavis (1854)
• Greece
20 Dec 12
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
20 Dec 12
That's the secret, don't look for it I find stuff spit out at Maggiepie's place, I tell her to not fret about the thing and the Black Hole with get bored and spit it out again...
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@devonavis (1854)
• Greece
20 Dec 12
Haha! It's really wierd because things disappear when you need them, and suddenly find them when you are not looking for them.
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@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
20 Dec 12
Most definitely. I know I have mentioned this before but I'd not been married long and my wedding ring 'disappeared' off my finger and I had no idea what had happened to it. What I DID know, however, that it must've come off in the house somewhere. I was most upset that I had lost it. Anyway, roll through time a few months later and I decided to tidy out one of my drawers on my dressing-table next to the bed. I removed a few things I didn't need, including a bag full of junk that I had a look through to see if there was anything worth keeping. There at the bottom of the bag was something glistening. I mean REALLY glistening as though it was saying, 'I'm here, I'm here!' so I picked it up, held it up and (to this day) I could not believe what I was looking at. It was my long-lost wedding ring. John had been considering buying me a new one but I told him "That's lovely but it's just not the same." How the ring got there I have no idea but I am so relieved it turned up, believe me.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
22 Dec 12
I've heard about things like that... seems something like that happened to me, not as important as a wedding ring (since I've never been married) but something ending up in a place that hadn't been moved in years and it was on the bottom!
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
30 Dec 12
I was hoping my luck was going to change upon my newly discovered wedding ring but it wasn't to be. Mind you, it's lucky in itself it actually turning up like that.
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• Canada
20 Dec 12
LOL Around here, if something disappears, the cat probably hid it somewhere. LOL When he doesn't think he gets enough attention, he takes the things we use on a regular basis, and hides them around the house. One day he actually managed to shove my laptop right off of my lap. haha
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
20 Dec 12
well, while Taj comes in here, normally the cats aren't allowed and while Taj was here with me when it happened, he was on the floor next to me and no where near the arm or top of the desk
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@BarBaraPrz (51811)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
20 Dec 12
I have gremlins. I just scream at them to "put it back!" if something is missing and they will when my back is turned. The other day, however, I heard something crash in the other room. Someone threw a toy train off the speaker. Wasn't me, wasn't Harmony. I wondered if it could have been Mike the ghost who used to throw things in the other end unit, the one that caught fire two summers ago.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
20 Dec 12
Talking to it, just means it thinks its important and it won't return it... could it have been a tiny earthquake? Of course, it could've just reached the "point of no return" for that train
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@BarBaraPrz (51811)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
20 Dec 12
No, not an earthquake. Not even the neighbors slamming doors. Definitely thrown with force.
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
20 Dec 12
That sounds like something that would be turned into a "Twilight Zone" story. There is no black hole in my house but just a very disorganized memory. I try to put things in the same place every time I use it but if I don't I may not find it for weeks! In fact, I recently bought a new heating pad, even though I knew I had one somewhere. Naturally, a couple days after I bought it I looked in a little-used closet and there was my heating pad! Well, now I have one for downstairs and one for upstairs so no harm done.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
20 Dec 12
That's the story of my life! I guess that's why I didn't like Twilight Zone when I was a kid and got into science fiction when I got older!
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• United States
20 Dec 12
I have three cats and a boyfriend, so things quite often "disappear" around here. However, I have had some things happen in here that are just... odd. The boyfriend wasn't around, and the cats were all in another room or the thing was not accessible to their fuzziness.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
21 Dec 12
See, that's just it! I knew I'd dropped some beads and I couldn't find them, but it didn't matter that much. So, since I don't need them anymore, out it pops!
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@deebomb (15304)
• United States
23 Dec 12
Hello ElicBxn. So that is what the hiding place is called. A black hole. I was beginning to think I was losing my mind. It seems that several things have been sucked into that black hole. I have two usb ports(I think that's what they are called) as well as a flashlight that have gone for a walk or got sucked into your black hole. There have been other things but can't think of them right now. Now you have given me peace of mind so I now know I'm not losing my mind just things I need or want.
@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
23 Dec 12
Yep, but if you don't stress too much over them, they might yet be spit out!
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
22 Dec 12
This is Benji - He is either up to mischief or playing with Banjo or sleeping or giving cuddles. He's such a dear little mate.
Oh definitely yes! His name is Benji but he doesn't spit things out again. If I catch him, he chews faster, if I get my fingers in his mouth and feel around I can't find anything. When I take my fingers outt, he continues chewing then gulps and looks at me as if to say..."Gone now." I'm sure under all his hair he has a smug grin on his dear little face. It's mostly beads of course, and I find some of them later outside. Do you know any other dog that poops Swarovski crystals? Now you do.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
23 Dec 12
YIKES! I'm glad I don't have to go looking for my Swarovski crystals in dog poop!
@AmbiePam (120533)
• United States
26 Dec 12
I know what you mean.
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• United States
1 Jan 13
yup.my house is notorious for "taking" things. you lay it down,turn,turn back,gone.there's no way in some cases it could have disappeared.i usually just yell out "put it back".most times it does. we've also had things pop up nobody bought,like cat toys.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
1 Jan 13
I've had this problem for years and years! the only way they come back is if I ignore it...
@mentalward (14690)
• United States
21 Dec 12
Yep. Well, okay, I USED to, in the house I grew up in. Only we called it our ghost. We had a bonafied ghost in our house. Even the neighbors saw him on occasion. He would take things at times. They'd be gone for an hour or a month, then reappear like magic. Some times he just knocked things over but would usually pick them up and put them back. We could hear this going on while we were sleeping, watching tv, etc. Once, I heard him brushing his teeth. It was just me and my mother in the house and when I called to her, thinking it was her in the bathroom, she answered me from her bedroom. When I asked her if she had just been in the bathroom, she said no so I told her what I had heard, we both went into the bathroom and, sure enough, one of the toothbrushes was wet but neither of us had brushed our teeth yet. But, whenever anything went missing, we'd just wait and be patient and it would always come back eventually. Maybe you have a ghost, too? I do like your "Black Hole" theory, though.
@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
21 Dec 12
No, not a ghost, this darn thing follows me from place to place, even seems to spawn other black holes to go to other people's places, like when Maggiepie moved out, she took one with her...
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
21 Dec 12
Yes, we have a hungry black hole. It particularly likes sewing/quilting supplies. It's latest snack was my 3 1/2 x 3 1/2 inch template. It is made from clear acrylic, so even when it gets spewed out, I can look right at it and not see it. I can't see how this happened because I've been so careful to put the template back in the box with the cut blocks. Oh, I forgot. I'm supposed to act as if I don't care that the template is gone.. Goodbye, template. good riddance.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
21 Dec 12
That's right. Act like it doesn't matter, and it'll spit it out again.
@pandora22 (868)
• Romania
20 Dec 12
if something small disappears in my house is usually thanks to my cats. the funniest thing that happened to me was to NOT find my eyeglasses and search for them a couple of minutes.i finally realized that they were on my nose
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
21 Dec 12
I have cats, but they don't much care for seed beads, and they aren't allowed in the room I was in, well, Taj was there, but he was sitting on the floor next to me. I have no idea where this bead came from...
• Romania
20 Dec 12
i just wanted to add the fact that it seems that many my lotters have cats which make their things disappear. maybe we can call the black hole a "cathole".
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@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
22 Dec 12
Was it one of the cat`s?. I have this issue, but it ends up one of the brat`s played with it and flung it somewhere.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
22 Dec 12
no, the only cat in the room when it happened totally ignores seed beads unless they hit him and this appeared on the desk whereas he was sitting next to me on the floor... Taj isn't much of a player since he's considered playing beneath him since he was 5 and he's now 10...
• India
20 Dec 12
Hi friend, good to know that you are taking rest and enjoying your dinner. Great to hear about your Christmas present to your sister. We don't have this kind of black hole experience, hope your enjoyed it a lot
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