still have communication with my ex partner..

I have not had any communication with my ex-girlfriend ever since we broke up. I don't think that there is any need for me to as I was the one that got badly hurt emotionally. It is a good thing that we do not stay together any more.

If both parted well then seems no problem in communicating with him . You can turn as best friend then but no more intimate feelings. If he requested me to call for some business matter then i will but if its outside business i will tell him that he should be the one to call , i can give him time as a friend and nothing more .

I still communicate with my ex. But I do not see any reason why we should be having an affair now, since both of us are married. Well, there could be teasing sometimes, talking about what happened to us before. But I have a clear head and I do not feel like being involved with any of them other than be just friends.

I don't talk to my ex at all. Not because I think we would get back together or that it upsets my husband. But the fact that I wouldn't want to be with someone that lies to me. He has never talk back to me every since we broke up almost 4 years ago. Yes it is possible for someone to fall back into love with there ex.

Hi asliah, how are you? I even feel shameful to call her my Ex. She cheated me. And i do not feel it right to still be in contact with her.. Not at all worthy. But if you are in good terms with your ex., maybe you can, on a friendship level..

I would only communicate with my ex if the possibility of us getting back together is zero. I wouldn't want yo get back together with them cause we broke u p for a reason. Know that being friends with your ex is not more mature than cutting all your connections with them, do things when you are ready not because you are lonely.

I still communicate with my ex-husband and we've gotten a bit more friendly over the years. We divorced when our kids were in high school and now they are grown and on their own. We still talk about issues with our children and I would help him if he ever needed help. After all, I loved him at one time and still do, although in a much different way. I think it's rare that people get back together. Usually something drives them apart and unless they solve that aspect of their personality there is no hope for another relationship to thrive. And if you do, chances are that the other person was part of that problem so it's unlikely you would do well together again. But there is nothing wrong with having a friendly relationship and I think you should. If you loved them once you should be capable of speaking civilly together and working together for the children. I was not always so reasonable, I admit, and was pretty awful to him for a couple of years because of the circumstances of our breakup. I'm glad I've matured enough to act like an adult and be friendly with him.

You know, I wouldn't. There is no future in the past. Sure, there is history but it ancient history. You should be looking forward, not back. If you want to be with them then stay, otherwise, you are just trying to fix old problems to make an old relationship new, it doesn't work like that. I would be no more than friends or just somebody you knew, otherwise you can rekindle old feelings and be right back where you didn't want to be in the first place. That's why you left right?

The way I see it, they are called "ex" for a reason... If it didn't work out for the first time, there's no reason for me to keep in communication in the future... I do have a daughter from the previous relationship but I have a sole custody of her... Every so often, my ex-girlfriend emails me but I don't respond to her & I think she gave up at this point... When there's situation involving my daughter that requires me to have any sort of communication with my ex, I usually talk to my lawyer so he can relay the message... I have nothing to say to her & either she has something to say to me or not, I don't really care...

Well, I cannot speak for everyone here. But I can speak for myself. I have an ex-wife. I have no choice but to have communication with her. Mainly because of the kids. Other wise I would have nothing to do with her. In my case I would never fall for her ever again. I am with someone now that is the perfect match for me.

I have some with my ex husband as my son now lives with him. They are in the usa and Im in mexico. So sometimes I need to call them. But my ex and I dont have any relationship anymore. None. happy new years.