Do you easily get annoyed?
By chiyochan
@chiyosan (30186)
Philippines
January 3, 2013 11:44pm CST
I just have to share this as i know my mom is the type who easily gets annoyed. Over little things and over some things that is out of her control. She just can't handle her annoyance and her mood shifts so fast to being angry and always nags on my brother. Haha..
Are you the type that is easily annoyed or irritated, what do you think caused this and how can this be controled by the person themselves?
6 responses
@devonavis (1854)
• Greece
5 Jan 13
I easily get irritated or annoyed. There are times that I really can't control myself and that annoyance or irritation turns into anger. This mostly happens when I am not feeling very well and some people don't understand. I'm just so sensitive sometimes. I think this behavior is not good since it usually destroys my day all through out. Now I'm learning how to prevent and control myslef.






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@devonavis (1854)
• Greece
6 Jan 13
My ears are very sensitive when I'm not feeling well so I hate it when someone keeps talking and talking. Haha!
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
4 Jan 13
I am not annoyed very easily, but I am easily hurt. My mother in law was the same way though, she was annoyed over everything! She constantly complains about anything! If there is a cloud in the sky she will complain about it, if there is a car driving in front of her she will complain about that, if there is a baby crying in the store she will complain about that... The list could go on and on... I CANNOT stand to be around that woman for any length of time! I am so glad I am states away from her now... Lol.
Someone being annoyed all the time or complaining about the smallest things is really frustrating and soon people stop wanting to be around them!
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@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
5 Jan 13
ahhh yeah that is someone that i would not want to be stuck in the traffic with. My mom is just as talkative but she sure is not a whiner. i know what makes her feel irritated but her opinions are not much like that of those that has got nothing to do with her that much. :D
But then as you have said i guess there is such a person that gets annoyed really quick, by traffic, by the lights they see, by the people they encounter with.. oh i could just imagine how stressful that is to be with them!
@rsa101 (40952)
• Philippines
4 Jan 13
Well I can controlled when I see that I am annoyed already that is why it does not blow me out of control. When I was a child I have an uncle that used to tease me all the time. It somehow trained me to control my emotions and not get irritated or get annoyed easily. I realized that my uncle just wanted me to get irritated or annoyed when he does that. So I did not give it to him and eventually he left me since he is not getting anything from me anymore.
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
5 Jan 13
that's wonderful when you know when to control your temper, and know when to not show such emotions. :D thank you for sharing this with us! :D There are really those who just are happy to get people all irritated. it seemed like that is their happiness, and at least you have known about that that you did not let him get to you.
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@rsa101 (40952)
• Philippines
7 Jan 13
Well I think I owe that to my Grandmother who silently supported and made me realized that if I give in to what my uncle wants he wins and I lose. So I somehow realized this early in life and to this day it somehow became part of me already. 

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@IntrovertShy (2780)
• Marikina, Philippines
4 Jan 13
They easily get angry. They need meditation. Maybe the reason why they act that way its because they have lots of things on their mind and so, they can't help themselves but to easily get annoyed or easily get angry. They also see the negative things around them instead the positive aura.

@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
9 Jan 13
well that's true, and i do agree with you too about this introvertshy... sometimes when someone's mind is always bothered... i think that is the real reason why they get easily annoyed. =)
devonavis... thanks as well for your response to the discussion. i agree when we are close to losing the temper.. it is always best to find ways to divert your attention.
@devonavis (1854)
• Greece
11 Jan 13
Yes. It is up to us to decide if we continue to entertain our anger or just get rid of it.
@devonavis (1854)
• Greece
5 Jan 13
Yeah, I agree with you. I experienced this a lot of times. When I feel I'm likely to get annoyed or irritated, I just puts my earphones and just listen to my favorite music. When I let my self irritated, it would surely affect my day so what I do is I try to prevent it in the beginning. 


@jenny1015 (13359)
• Philippines
4 Jan 13
I could be.But it depends on where I am and who I am with. If I am at the mall and I would see poor service from a sales lady, I really go out of my way to talk to the manager about it. But really, mot of the times, I would just let things pass.
@jenny1015 (13359)
• Philippines
5 Jan 13
Well, a
tleast I have never become like the “AMALAYER“ girl. I could still somehow control my anger. I never want to make a scene.
tleast I have never become like the “AMALAYER“ girl. I could still somehow control my anger. I never want to make a scene.1 person likes this

@meumeu25 (913)
• United Arab Emirates
4 Jan 13
Hi,
There are certain stuff that get me annoyed easily, like when someone yells at me or somebody shout out undesirable words towards me or anybody close to me. Other than that, I think I always managed to remain calm. But there are times that I wish, I can get angry fast, because sometimes I have to stop and think if I am suppose to be angry about something that was said or done to me. Then somebody else did the getting mad stuff for me instead.
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
5 Jan 13
in these scenarios, i think that is just fair enough when you would at least fight back or defend yourself especially if you were doing your own thing and someone would just come up to you yelling for no reason, i too would have lost my control if that is the case.







