SPAM PM from mylot friends.
By Admin1993
@Admin1993 (628)
India
January 6, 2013 7:13am CST
I saw some members talking about MyLot PM.Is it spam to send personal messages to fellow mylotters,i mean including referral links and other ligit website to friends.I just wanna know is it spam or legal.Some members says they delete friends from their list because of recieving referral links and website invitation for joining the side under individual.
I honestly want to know can i send referrals link to my friends of the side that is ligit,espicially money earning websites.
Any responses and ideas are appreciated.
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4 responses
@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
6 Jan 13
Send them a PM first asking them if they would be interested. Say something like "I have a referral you might be interested in, let me know if you'd like me to send it." That's the polite thing to do.
You are pretty new here and your friends will probably think you just joined to take advantage of them. If you wait until your numbers go up you'll appear more legitimate. If you are making friends just to use them as referrals, you will quickly find your here friends dropping you.
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@Admin1993 (628)
• India
6 Jan 13
Thanks a ton for sharing your ideas,great idea,but a doubt how to become old members like you.I think it might take a time to be viterian.
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
6 Jan 13
Not so much time, really. You've started some discussions but they mainly concern money and earning. Start a few where you share some personal aspect of your life, such as a hobby aside from money, tell about a favorite custom of your culture or a favorite part of your country. Let people get to know you. Talk politics, cooking, what you think of things You'll find that people are applying to be your friends much more and this place is a lot more interesting when you talk about things other than money and earning. You'll have more fun, too, and you'll be a veteran poster in no time--that 46 I see now will rocket up to the hundreds and so will your earnings and friends. 
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@besweet (9831)
• Ireland
7 Jan 13
Dragon54u, your comment is very helpful for every new member and I really hope admin1993 will follow your advice and start having fun here. The truth is that I have been a member of other "social sites" and I was working there in parallel with mylot. This is the only site where I don't see a lot of spamming and I am very happy for it!
Admin1993: If you want to post your referral links you can display them on your profile. In the process of making friends and starting discussions, more mylot members will visit your profile and you can get some referrals. If you spend some time here you may be able to learn a lot about new sites if you are interested in that. People give their honest opinions and not make everything ideal in order to promote links and get refs.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
6 Jan 13
I think you should ask before send your referral link to someone. If he/she feel interested to join you can send your referral link. I still never send any of my referral link to my friend. I just send if they feel interested.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
7 Jan 13
Nevermind. You can ask me before you send your referral link. If you have join any site with very low minimum payout and if that site give a good earning, you can promote to me. Make sure that site support all countries.
@Admin1993 (628)
• India
7 Jan 13
Sure akamaru,i had PM you last day of SB and when i check your Porfile i found the side not support.I hope the will supports world wide because it's the best earning sides for me including mylot.
Happy earning.
@Admin1993 (628)
• India
7 Jan 13
Hi,Friend Akamaru i couple of days ago send you PM including my referral link in it without having permission from you.At the time i was not know about such rules.I really accept my apologize.I promise never to send such kind of unwanted PM to my friend without their permissions.
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Jan 13
I know I do not want to be bothered with people sending me messages about other sites. I like MyLot and I only want to be here so for me yes it is spam. And it's annoying. Now, if you respond to a discussion about someone saying they want to know more about other sites to earn from, than send them a message letting them know you know of another good site to earn on...
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
17 Oct 15
hi@lovingmybabies I sure do not lwant to get any sapm messages as t will just report them
@Admin1993 (628)
• India
7 Jan 13
Yeah,your idea is also a very good one that if only a person fell interested only then we must help me or direct to ligit sides we know.
Thanks that you have a good idea.
@intelinsideyou (664)
• India
29 Jan 13
You can't achieve referrals like this and by sending referral link without the members interest in that site will be considered as a spam and they might complain against you. So its good to first introduce the site to the members and ask them if they are interested in it and if they are willing then only send them the referral link.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
17 Oct 15
good advice @inteliksnideyou find out first I do not do that nor do I wan anybody ding that to me send me an email if yuo have to not on my lot
@Admin1993 (628)
• India
29 Jan 13
Yep my friend,i should fist ask them their permissions whether they are interested to join the side i would recommend.I agree if we send a link to our friend like this then yeah it will be considered as spam PMs.
Thanks for sharing your idea.
