My boss was a micromanager

Philippines
March 8, 2013 5:22am CST
My boss is used to doing almost everything because when she started the business, she did everything. Now that the company is hiring more people to help her, the first dilemma was to overcome being a micro manager. She got 3 managers right away but really had a not so pleasant time with them except for one. But through time, my boss gradually entrusted some things to the one manager that remained and learned that she is not a wonder woman and that she needs to trust people more. Have you had this experience? Share them please :)
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@leateagee (3667)
• China
8 Mar 13
Your boss needs to learn to let go of her past respnsibilities and start trusting the responsibilities to the new managers. It is hard to break old habits of being in-charge of everything especially she was teh one who started the business. Micro-managing her workers will just stress her and a waste of time and a bad managemnet style. Hopefully she'll realize this soon or someone has to inform her so she won't have bad relationships with her employees. Noone can do everything by herself/himself. We need each other and as we need them, we need to trust them. If the people we trusted didn't do it well, guide them until they get the work done well. I had this experience a few years back in the same company I am working with but eventually my boss has learned to trust me because we had an open communication and he gave me a chance to do my work well with minimal supervision. I have accepted my shortcomings and asks his help whenever necessary.
• Philippines
9 Mar 13
This really proves that bosses learn a lot from their subordinates, right? The trusting and the delegating is only the output of being humble enough to accept that others can also do what they can do :) Thank you for sharing, Lea!
@leateagee (3667)
• China
10 Mar 13
Yes! You are right! Well, I hope realize that. You know bosses are proud people since they have had numerous years of experience.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
Oh, I know how you feel. My mom is a micromanager as well. She does everything at home and then complains that she does everything and nobody helps her. How could they? She'd follow-up everything they'd do and re-do them all because it's not up-to-par to her expectations. Now that we're older, she's still into it but she has learned to delegate. I guess we all have those phases in our lives, but as soon as we learn that people around us could be trusted with little things, then, she could relax. I guess that's what's happening to your boss. Have a great mylot experience ahead!
@leateagee (3667)
• China
8 Mar 13
Mothers are really like that in a way or the other because they looked after us since we were born. They know our weaknesses and it's hard to accept that we have become independent and now can manage our lives. And also can be a big help to the family. But one good thing is that though it's hard to accept, they eventually accept as time passes. I love you moms!!!