"Okay,so they Moved???"

If they are just some other people I know, then I would dismiss it. I wouldn't let it bother me, it's fine because I don't care that much about what other people think. But if I am good friends with them, I would be a bit offended because I think that is something that they can easily tell me about. As friends, of course they would have known that I am looking forward to seeing them. The least they can do is say a word about it and I will be ok. Maybe I also want to say hi to them, right?

I can see where you may have thought some of these things. Isn't it funny how our mind works. It would have been nice if all of you had known they were moving so y9ou didn't feel like this.

hummm... maybe it was Steve... maybe they just moved to another table because of the access problem... did they move far? what is the table like where they moved to?

Aw, I'm sorry Hatley, I also would have been affected if my friends moved without telling me and even if they did tell me, I would miss them still.

Hi Hatley. Caregivers don't care. Very few it seems. And you are too sensitive. You are like me. I think that you do just fine and to heck with everybody else.

It is just a different table they have moved to, not a different home? And whom have they moved to?

hi hatley, Am I following this right? it sounds to me as if the caregiver was the one to move people for whatever reason. if that is so, then i would not speculate or take it personal as they probably had some good reason unbeknown to you to do so. i would not just assume that someone was jealous of you or that they disliked Steve or that it even had anything at all to do with you. Maybe i am misunderstanding this?? I can tell that you do feel bad and are trying not to let it get to you. Maybe it would put your mind at ease if you talked discreetly to the caregiver or just came right out and asked Jess and Pearla what was going on??

You're being overly sensitive. :)

It's always a shame to lose friends Hatley, but can you see these two ladies elsewhere? I think you are right with the logical explanation for their moving, but it does seem a little like bad manners not to tell you. Perhaps it all came up in a hurry and they didn't get the chance? Look forward to some new tablemates now, and some new friendships!

I think that I would be hurt too. It was actually very rude in my opinion just to move without even the courtesy of saying something to you. It was probably because of Steve but then so what? I am sure that they had bad habits too. Hold your head up high Hatley and move on. This is nothing to what you have been through in life

Being in constant companion with some people will really hurt if they just suddenly keep a distance without you knowing why. Whatever may their reason be it let this not affect you so much as there are still other people who care.

I would feel a little upset if friends fail to at least say good bye, anyway how sure are you that they think of you as you think of them?

It surely hurts, Hatley, but we just don't know if the transfer was urgent that they were not able to tell you about it. I understand how you feel. Don't feel so bad about it.

Hi Ms Hatley- Although it was not fair on their part, at least not without telling you a reason for all what they did but I am sure you would overcome whatever the feelings. Yep, you would be fine in while as life goes on with you meeting all kind of guys. I hope you would come to terms soon. cheers

It would effect me the same way Hatley so you're not alone. Don't think you're being over sensitive but on the same hand think they should have said something to you since you've been dinning with them for so long. Don't know what else to say. Visit with them outside of your meals?

I am so sorry that you had to put up with this, Hatley! I can see they were quite rude not to have told you why they moved. If they had a problem, there`s always a way via a white lie that will not hurt anyone. I can tell you that, as I see it, they don`t measure up. Soul germs are worse than cold germs.Good riddance

Hiya Hatley!! Do you mean these friends moved to another table or did they actually move out of GC? Hmmmm, I think I'd feel hurt about it - afterall, these were friends, right? Interestingly, our neighbors just did that to us. They own the house next door, but one day our other neighbor boy told us nobody was in the house. I asked why did he say that (because we just saw them everyday before that) . . . and he said the girl next door (one of my daughter's friends too) said they were planning this for months. Why weren't WE told?? What's odd is they left all their stuff there . . . and now there are 5 people who live there (apparently they are renters) - I totally do not understand the situation . . . and I don't know know why they never mentioned a word to us!! The neighbor boy also told us that the girl said they might come back in a year. I don't know what that's about - and I'm not really hurt about it because we're really not that close as neighbors . . . but still, it would be a courtesy thing to mention something huge like that, right? Could it be possible, too, that maybe your table mates had to leave abruptly? The cops came to those neighbors house like 3 times in the past couple months - not sure if that had anything to do with it. Sometimes I think people think they don't have the opportunity to explain or maybe they felt embarrassed to say . . . but who knows. Maybe you can get the scoop from someone there who also knew them??

Perhaps Perla is possessive and may have resented your friendship with Jess.How close were you to Jess Hatley! Whatever the reason it was rude on their part to just walk away without telling you since there was no animosity between you. I am sure you will get nice table mates soon.

I am confused. Are you living in a facility like assisted living or a nursing home? So where did Perla and Jess go? Are they sitting at another table? is it possible to ask them, in a friendly manner, why they moved? Who is sitting at your table now? I can understand why you might be confused and hurt. First, i think that you should find out or try to find out why Perla and Jess moved. Don't assume. Then go from there. It might not be you. it might be the other person. But the real problem is that you don't know why they moved without telling you that they were going to.

Hi Hatley You are not be overly sensitive I would of felt the same way. When you think you are good friends with someone and they do this yes it can hurt. I know it is not easy but try not to let it get to you.