Breaking up with my fiance I think

As hard as it is for you to make this decision I think it is for the best if you feel that way. It wouldn't be right to get married to someone that your not really truly happy with. You will hurt him more in the future if you wait. I think your strong for knowing yourself well enough to know you want to end it now. I hope it works out for the best! And welcome to MyLot! =)

Well i can understand your situation very well and i know it wont be easy for u to forget him as u have spent many precious moments for him, not only him i also wish that u get a man of your dreams very soon. u should not blame yourself for the failure of this relationship as it happens with everyone.

Yes I can understand what you mean.With whatever the two of you decide I hope that both of you will be happy. We do spend a lot of time with the person we date and so that causes a lot of attachment. So when things don't work out we are sad and it does hurt.

This is a sad story, but I think you did the right thing.

I think it's probably the "breaking up" time of the year. I think I have ended my relationship as well, it's too early to get over it but I know that it's time to move on. Sometimes it is harder to end a long relationship because of the habits, the mutual trust and the fact that this person has also become our friend. So it hurts more because you are also losing a friend, even if you are not in love any more. Best of luck for your future, I hope you will also find the man that makes you want to share with you the rest of your life!

Hi friend, sad to hear about this, as you mentioned you find that you both are not the correct pair, so there is nothing wrong in leaving him. Don't worry, surely you will find a proper pair for you in the near soon and my wishes for it

Well if your not happy is definitely best to part way before getting married . You are doing the right thing by breaking up with him , we all deserved someone that will love us unconditionally . You cant force your feelings , you just dont love him and the sooner he know the better for both of you .

That is a brave move. Not everyone has the guts to realize that it's not going to work out. Some stay in a relationship that is going no where because it's the next step or it's been a routine for them. Wish you luck in your conversation with him.

If you are not happy in the relationship your partner wont be happy either,so i think you are actually doing him a favor by breaking up.Its great that you are actually wishing good for him and want him to be happy in the future,i have seen people kicking their partners out of their lives rudely and behave as if they never existed.

Not only he deserves someone who loves him and is happy to see you, you also deserve that! It's normal to feel sad since you spend time together and by now it's clear you will start a new period in your life. It's normal you will grieve for some time and it's normal also that it will take some time to start a new life, to find yourself back again. So start making plans, set goals and love and pamper yourself. Since in the end it's you who is your best friend. I hope he will find out someday too he is his own best friend.

Hi mandax Welcome to Mylot I hope you will, enjoy your stay here with us, and make lots of friends while you are, here with us,There are times we all fall out of love, with some one and are no longer happy, with them and looks like this has, happen to you, I hope you find that special that make you happy to.

is there not any other way to solve or making more understanding in your relationship with him if you love him that much? then try to sit and talk to him and find a perfect way to continue or break up.