Coping with panic disorders
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
United States
March 29, 2013 11:41am CST
Many if us here deal with anxiety and panic disorders. Panic disorders are usually triggered by situations. I have situational panic. It's when I am driving. When I start approaching the end of my comfort zone, I will begin to feel my panic rise. Panic, is a mechanism we use to avoid something. It's a learned response. Our fight or flight response goes into overdrive. It feels like a big bad bear is after you and you are trying to escape from being mauled to death, but you just can't run fast enough to escape. That rush if adrenalin causes your heart to pound, and you can't catch your breath. You may even scream like that bear is fixing to tear you apart. But...there is nothing to fear. It's just a biochemical response to stress.
The immediate solution is to breath slowly. Breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth. Focus all your energy into slowing your breathing down. Your panic will ebb as you calm yourself. You can track your calming process by using a scale of 1 to 10. The numeral 1 indicates total calm and the numeral 10 indicates the worst anxiety or panic you have ever felt.
Keep breathing slowly in from your nose and out through your mouth. Take note if your anxiety level. Feel the panic diminish to anxiety. Feel the anxiety leave your body with every cleansing breath.
I use this technique to manage the panic I feel rising when I am behind the wheel of our car. I had to go to Bethlehem last week, which meant I had to cross this super highway (route 316). Every time I approach that intersection my panic rises. I use this breathing technique to calm myself so that I do not go into uncontrollable panic mode. Panic is not going to kill me but my reaction to it could kill me in a traffic accident.
I have taught myself to breathe through panic. In other words, I let myself feel my panic escalate and run its course. Panic can only get to a certain level and then it will dissipate. The thing to do is allow it to flow and leave your body as you breathe through it. Everyone can do it. You might think you can't because you are so accustomed to being helpless and at the mercy of your panic. You don't have to live that way. You can make up your mind to ride the panic out to its end while facing your fears. I have to do it every time I come to the 316 intersection. I have to do it every time I drive my daughter to her psychiatrist in Bogart. In not dependent on medicine to control my anxiety. I face my fears when I must and breathe through it. Then in so proud of myself for riding out the panic I had.
Every time I go to Bogart it gets easier. I still get the sweaty palms on the steering wheel. I still react by taking short panicked breaths, and it is at that point that I make the decision to breathe slowly and deeply to ride the panic to its end. My anxiety is then manageable. It measures at about a 2 or a 3 on that scale.
About that scale. You decide what numbers to assign to your stress level. You might mentally creat yours from 0 to 9 or from 1 to 10. It doesn't matter. What matters is that you begin to feel the different levels of anxiety. It's important to know that the feeling is uncomfortable, but it's not going to kill you. There is no reason to feed off it and disrupt our own lives and the lives of those who love us. Take each episode of panic and breathe through it to its end.
End of public service announcement.




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@celticeagle (189792)
• Boise, Idaho
29 Mar 13
I was diagnosed with severe depression with panic attacks back in 2006. It took me quite a while to find a medication that helps with the anxiety and panic. I can sure tell the difference if I don't take it for a couple of days. I wish I could do without the meds but I know I can't. I hated getting on them and really tossed around my options. I just know I have to be on them. My anxiety is just to strong at times and I can't always control it and bring it down. I can control my panic if it comes on rather slowly and just do some of the things that you mention. But if it is bad and comes on quickly(rates 7-9 in just a matter of minutes) I can't. And I have to do a lot of mind work to get it to calm down. I really try very hard not to show my kids my panic for the most part. I don't want them to see how bad I get. It all depends on a lot of things when I get really bad. If I am having a deep depressive spell or not. Ongoing stress for a period of times makes it very difficult too. Just can't always control it on my own.
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@MoonGypsy (4605)
• United States
29 Mar 13
i can relate to what you are saying 100%, especially when it comes to your family dealing with it.
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@MoonGypsy (4605)
• United States
29 Mar 13
this is why i say that i admire you so much. i probably would be in the hospital or something. my panic attacks are more than just situational. they can happen when or how ever.
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@celticeagle (189792)
• Boise, Idaho
30 Mar 13
I think that everyone has sensitivities to certain things and I guess mine is stress. That family stuff must get you down, PQ. You are becoming stronger all the time and eating good. I wish we could eat better. MG, are you on a good anxiety medication? Hope so. The one I am on sure helps me.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
30 Mar 13
yes these are great techniques, but when somebody is emotionally crippled they need medication first to get the stress level down, then they can work on the panic. My professor was an expert in panic disorders that was her whole practice. I have treated panic orders but you can't get someone to calm down that easily when they are very blocked with panic. The pills come first to generally calm the nerves and then you can go on to treating the panic disorders.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
2 Apr 13
that is great.It is normally done by systematic desensitization, meaning you start slowly bringing the person closer and closer to the elevator until they loose there fear. Getting into the elevator and riding it is the last step.
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
30 Mar 13
Yes my daughter takes medication. She is panicked by elevators. It took years but I did get her to ride in an elevator without panicking. She would never even listen to me. She got panicked just hearing the word elevator. She still doesn't like it but she can ride in them now. I taught her how to breathe through her panic.
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@MoonGypsy (4605)
• United States
29 Mar 13
this was an excellent public service announcement. i relate to it alot. i suffer from panic attacks, but i have to take medication to manage mine. i am so proud of you that you are handling this one your own, with out the aid of medication.
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@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
6 Apr 13
It helps me a lot. I've helped others when I was working as a nurse with this tecnique.
@mentalward (14690)
• United States
29 Mar 13
I have panic disorder syndrome not caused by situations. Mine is a chemical imbalance in my brain. No specific thing ever caused my panic attacks to happen, they just did, whenever and wherever they wanted.
I had them for 24 years before there was finally a name AND a treatment! I was so happy, I must've created a sonic boom behind me as I rushed to the doctor's office.
I honestly thought I was crazy as most doctors had told me things like I could control it and I was just high-strung and need to get used to it. The day I began treatment that actually worked was the beginning of my life all over again and it felt GREAT.
I honestly thought I was crazy as most doctors had told me things like I could control it and I was just high-strung and need to get used to it. The day I began treatment that actually worked was the beginning of my life all over again and it felt GREAT.1 person likes this
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
29 Mar 13
Yes there are cases where the autonomic nervous system misfires due to a chemical imbalance. I'm glad you found a treatment so you can live a 'normal' life. Mine is all situational. I knew a woman who suffered greatly. She was always going to the hospital but they couldn't teach her to cope. I think hers was a chemical imbalance too, but I'm not sure they knew about it back in the 80s. She always came in and her husband was beyond frustrated with her, because he couldn't stay home and babysit her. He had to work.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
30 Mar 13
This is definitely informative and useful. I have a tremendous fear of public speech. Back in high school, I've never spoken to the public without messing up the speech. I've learned something like this, and some visualization technique and they worked like a charm.
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@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
30 Mar 13
I also used to be afraid of public speaking. I did it though in college. I won the award for my district. I didn't win state though. That was disappointing.
@cynthiann (18612)
• Jamaica
29 Mar 13
Wow! I think that you should earn a degree in controlling panic disorders. I only once had a panic attack and it was horrible and I was under immense stress at the time. I felt that I was going to die as I coud not breathe properly. I felt scared too. But it was only once. I do become stressed sometimes when driving but most times I am calm. You should be so proud of yourself for working through ir rather breathing through your paniuc when it comes. Congratulations and have a Happy Easter
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@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
29 Mar 13
I was a nurse for a long time. I was taught this technique first in labor and delivery and later in mental health units.
@cynthiann (18612)
• Jamaica
29 Mar 13
I have only recently found out that this is so. I was unaware of the fact that some of my friends suffer from this too. IU think they were ashamed of it somehow. 

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@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
29 Mar 13
Panic can be immobilizing. You have to learn to deal in order to become independent. Otherwise a person would be a prisoner of his/her fears.
@RitterSport (2451)
• Lippstadt, Germany
6 Apr 13
hi dear PQ my meds are working fine when it comes to my panic disorders. I am so glad that the meds kick in that well as I can lead a normal life and no one would suspect me having panic if you dont know I am taking the meds every morning.
but I hope I will remember that technique of breathing when I get into panic mode nest time.
@WakeUpKitty (8691)
• Netherlands
29 Mar 13
It's a long time ago I paniced, at a certain point too much happened to me and it was over. I was still under the age of 9 years old. After that I have had and still have a lot of stress. All kinds of (my marriage was one of them, the terrible family I had an other one, same with all the terrible abusive friends I had). I think by now my biggest stress is people. For some reason they Always give me stress with their behaviour. I feel way better and much more healthier alone. I assume that instead of panic I have my allergies/eczema attacks? Although I already have them too since I am only a few months old. I think we all have "something" but it should not run your life. So fight it since I do believe it is like they say (well Dutch saying) human is fearing the most fear itself.
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@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
29 Mar 13
Yes, I believe we all have something stressful. I'm a but agoraphobic. I'm okay as long as I don't leave my comfort zone. High traffic inside my comfort zone also will trigger it for me. I learned this technique while working in the labor unit. It calmed women's panic while in hard labor. When I worked with mental health patients we used the same technique. I use it on myself and I coach my daughter through panic episodes when necessary.











