Identifying with Empathic Tendencies

United States
September 21, 2015 8:20pm CST
An empath is someone whom can feel on an intellectual, or even physical / emotional level, the feelings of another person. I look to past situations and tendencies and how I related to them, and then I look to what I know now of Empaths. I do not want to characterize myself as being an empath because I've always been a very sensitive, intuitive, and emotionally driven soul. I do feel as if I am a sponge sometimes, to others emotions. Are they mad? Aggravated? I am too. Are they depressed, sad? Well I start feeling a weight on me as well, even if moments before I was fine. Even so, I still don't completely identify as an empath. Do I feel connected and KNOWING of others emotions and feelings? Yes. Do I get gut intuition on something, only to find out later I was right? Yes. I Know these people though, they are family, friends, co-workers. Wouldn't I be able to guess these things anyway? I Truly do not know. All I do know is that a co-worker is having a time of it, and last night I went from being begrudging but happy to just angry and sad. No real reason. I was diagnosed with bipolar years ago, but took no medicine. I do not have moments of severe highs and lows, hypes or mania. I get depressed like any normal person, but it doesn't last as long as I've seen it in those with bipolar. I believe it was a misdiagnosis. i know a lot about bipolar having had family and friends with it. I don't know, i've started to babble here. Not sure where I Am going with this.
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@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
24 Sep 15
Empath is a popular term right now. I know I am empathic, but I am not an empath. Has anyone ever mentioned to you the seven areas of giftedness? One of those is a gift or talent to know and understand others. You can be gifted in all the ways, possibly, but I do not think it is probable. I guess I react badly to a person saying they are an empath because my sister says she is but that is a load of bull hockey. If she was an empath or even empathic, she would have treated people differently all her life. I love her, but really? So here I am on your little ramble with you.
• United States
24 Sep 15
I have always had a gift of what I call somewhat psychic. I have had premonition dreams my whole life and have just sort of keened things. I don't want to call myself truly an empath because from what I have read there are things that I can't identify with that defines a empathic person. I don't like when people claim something so far fetched just to gain the sympathy or even elation of others.