Not Opening Your Mail Can Get You Into Trouble
@RichardMeister (5328)
Otis Orchards, Washington
October 23, 2015 1:06pm CST
Many years ago a company I worked for had us watch a film on reducing clutter. One of the things the film said to do was to throw away any mail you did not have time to deal with right away. “Just toss it,” the guy in the film said.
I decided to do that. Boy did it cut down on the clutter. And the film also claimed the less cutter you have the better you can handle your finances. And boy did my bank account grow.
Everything went along great–that is until I started getting angry phone calls from bill collectors. Hey, I didn’t have time to deal with bills so I did what the guy in the film said to do, “Just toss it.”
Okay, I just made this up. I would never throw a bill away without paying it. So here is a true story.
A few years ago my brother got a letter from a company that he didn’t recognize. He didn’t bother to open the letter. He just tossed it. After getting several of these letters and tossing all of them he got a phone call from the company. It turned out to be a collection company. They were charging him a good sum of money for interest.
My brother now found himself in deep trouble. He could have easily paid the original bill but the interest on the bill made it way out of his financial reach.
A couple of days after my brother got the phone call he had a doctor’s appointment. He mentioned the collection bill to the receptionist. She told him to call the collection company and tell them he was on disability (which he was) and he could not afford to pay the bill. He did this.
Not long ago I asked my brother if the collection company ever hounded him for the money. He told me they had not. However, he felt like he was ripping the company off so he made small payments until the bill was paid off. The company did not charge him any more interest. They probably was glad to get any money from him.
The moral of the story? Never throw mail away until you at least open it and read it.
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@topffer (42155)
• France
23 Oct 15
When I had a depression a few years ago I did not opened many mails
. In France a bill collector has to send you a charged letter to have a proof that he wrote to you. The only exception is made for the tax authorities. In fact, when a bill collector sends you several ordinary letters, it is usually a proof that his request is dubious, so I had no problems with bill collectors. However I missed several important personal letters, including some checks, and I had hard times later to catch up, so, yes, it can get you into troubles
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. In France a bill collector has to send you a charged letter to have a proof that he wrote to you. The only exception is made for the tax authorities. In fact, when a bill collector sends you several ordinary letters, it is usually a proof that his request is dubious, so I had no problems with bill collectors. However I missed several important personal letters, including some checks, and I had hard times later to catch up, so, yes, it can get you into troubles
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@BelleStarr (61463)
• United States
29 Oct 15
I open every thing and then toss 99%
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@Samanthavv (1380)
• United States
24 Oct 15
Also, don't be afraid to dispute a debt and ask for itemized bills for medical expenses. So often they sneak charges into the bill or mislabel expenses.
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@arthurchappell (44941)
• Preston, England
28 Oct 15
A friend's son went to jail for not reading his mail. He was too lazy to open it and missed a court summons over a simple speeding ticket so he was arrested for contempt of court and spent two weeks behind bars. It was his only brush with the law.
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@softbabe44 (5815)
• Vancouver, Washington
24 Oct 15
It's always a good idea to read the mail pretty good idea.
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
23 Oct 15
Most definitely! I open everything - even all the junk mail - because you just never know! I guess your brother had a good conscience and felt he had to repay the company even though they didn't ask for it - I wonder how many people would have done that?! Obviously the company accepted it. Believe me, we would love to just toss all the bills!! 

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