Most people admire a good loser...isn't it ?

@alienstar (5142)
India
November 24, 2006 12:25am CST
People will be happy telling about your lost battles or explaining about your bad things... what you have done....but good things are not spread like bad things...not many people wil praise you for good things...do they?
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• Singapore
15 Dec 06
this is normal...news about your failure will spread like wild fire but your achievement will not be known. well, i guess it's because it's easier for people to condemn rather than compliment.
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@alienstar (5142)
• India
15 Dec 06
People are made like that...too selfish character.It looks very artficial these day's, as cunning people in this world are going on increasing and sometimes, we get frustrated meeting people who doesn't have any other work than talking about people's downfall...isn't it? they don't talk about people who are succeding in their life..they will be happpy telling about bad things of somebody...isn't it? Anyway's, thanks for responding
• Singapore
15 Dec 06
Thanks for the best response!
@Jshean20 (14362)
• Canada
15 Dec 06
A perfect example of not being praised for doing a good thing would be the case that's all over the media these days- Madonna adopting a baby. To me, she has done a wonderful thing by bringing a baby into her home to love as her own but the media has to turn it around and make it look like she's doing something wrong. I think a lot of the reason for people spreading "failure" has to do with the jealousy factor, people don't like to hear of other people succeeding..they want to hear all the negative stuff, the "filth". I think this case is especially true with celebrities or other people who succeed often; it's a shame really.
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@alienstar (5142)
• India
15 Dec 06
Oh....ofcourse, i also agree with you.... adopting a baby is a wonderfull job.And you have also given a nice example also...but, madonna got highlighted just because of her star image...isn't it? media is taking some advantage of her start status by putting up news like this and it is really bad on their part by misusing media for bad things....it really creates an bad impression for many people who believe in media isn't it? and i also think that spreading up of bad things and hiding their good things might be because of more of jealousy factor... Anyway's, thanks for responding