The wrong way to do things

@Fleura (34927)
United Kingdom
November 2, 2015 9:58am CST
Do you find yourself looking askance at your partner or friend or housemate when they do something in their usual way – but you find it a bit weird? I admit I can’t get used to my partner’s method of preparing fruit; he uses a potato peeler to peel apples and pears. Of course there’s nothing intrinsically wrong with this, it makes perfect sense to use a peeling tool to peel fruit or vegetables, I just can’t get used to it. I always use a small knife; in fact growing up I always used a knife for all vegetables because my Mum didn’t approve of potato peelers because they cut off too thick a slice of potato and waste too much; no doubt some people will find that strange! What habits do you find it hard to get used to? All rights reserved. © Text and image copyright Fleur 2015.
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@boiboing (13147)
• Northampton, England
2 Nov 15
I learned to be grateful if someone else is doing it and to keep my mouth shut so they won't stop.
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
12 Dec 15
I am still trying to teach my husband that. If I am doing it; he should be quiet! He is not quiet, so he is in the kitchen now and I am on myLot.
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@WorDazza (15826)
• Manchester, England
2 Nov 15
I always used a knife before I got married and then switched to a potato peeler. Called Mrs WorDazza!! Thank you very much, I've been a bow-tie, tuxedo-wearing, microphone stand leaning 1970s comedian and I'm here all week!!
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@Fleura (34927)
• United Kingdom
2 Nov 15
Yes I guess I have my live-in potato-peeler too. And he thinks that there are two ways of doing things - his way, and the wrong way!
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@WorDazza (15826)
• Manchester, England
3 Nov 15
@Fleura Hmmmm! I think your other half may be my wife!!!
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
12 Dec 15
being the only one it the family back a few years that would wash the damned dishes. I was in the hospital afer a hysterectomy and childbirth when I cane home every pot and pan and dish and glass were on the kitchen counter waiting for mama to do the damned dishes that I d not miss stuck here in a retirement center.
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@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
3 Nov 15
My husband chops onions without using a chopping board. He does it while holding the onion in one hand. My mother-in-law does the same too. I find it strange but I guess it's just the way some people do things. I can't do it.
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@Fleura (34927)
• United Kingdom
3 Nov 15
I'm glad my partner doesn't do that, he's rather accident-prone so it would be bound to end badly!
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• United States
2 Nov 15
I only use a potato peeler for potatoes and carrots. Fruits and other veggies I'll use a knife. Sometimes it's hard to accept a different way of doing things but if someone else is willing to help then I'm learning to just say thanks
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• Canada
5 Nov 15
For me, I'm pretty chill. Most things don't bother me that much...but, that's possibly because I take a lot of time to myself...so, I kinda chill easily and don't get put much mind on certain things.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
3 Nov 15
I find the potato peeler to be much more effective for all fruit and potatoes. I have used a knife and a peeler, and I am much more likely to mangle the potato with a knife. The Man cuts up his food, even food most people don't cut up. He eats a sandwich with a fork and knife. That's weird to my American hands which long to grab that sandwich.
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
2 Nov 15
We use knives to peel almost everything except for carrots. I do use a peeler on carrots but it takes off the peeling only. I grew up using knives instead of peelers. I don't even remember my mama having a peeler when I was young. I get upset at my husband when he does dishes. We do not have a dish washer so we do dishes by hand. Hubby never washes the glasses first. I hate that! I wash the glasses before anything else and then plates, silverware, bowls, pots, pans, etc.
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
2 Nov 15
@Fleura LOL that is right! I don't want him to stop washing dishes. I have said something one time and after that I just left it alone. That old saying "Don't look a gift horse in the mouth" covers this issue.
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@boiboing (13147)
• Northampton, England
2 Nov 15
@Fleura I decided to look the other way when he stacks a dishwasher and not jump in and rearrange everything.
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@Fleura (34927)
• United Kingdom
2 Nov 15
Mine is OK doing the dishes but then he never rinses all the scummy dregs from the sink afterwards and leaves the bowl all greasy, yuk! But as @boiboing says I can't complain in case he stops doing it at all!
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
2 Nov 15
I use a knife too since we disposed of our rusty peeler. I think it's time to get one, it's a handy tool.
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@PainsOnSlate (21845)
• Canada
3 Nov 15
I actually have an apple peeler and it works like a charm. You should buy him one. My hubby drives me crazy because he goes around turning off lights. We really don't need to be walking around in the dark. Its not that we're poor or can't pay our bills, its just a habit and one that makes me crazy
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@Fleura (34927)
• United Kingdom
3 Nov 15
I've never heard of an apple peeler, I'll have to look for one! Maybe your hubby is doing his bit to cut CO2 emissions and slow global warming?
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• Canada
12 Dec 15
Our apple peeler is very close to this one. @WorDazza @Fleura @Rollo1
Works for apples and potatoes! It peels, cores and slices apples, very easy to use and convenient for baking apple pies or making apple sauces
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
12 Dec 15
@PainsOnSlate - he is saving the earth! lets keep it to 1.5 degrees!
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@JudyEv (381760)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Nov 15
I always think that peeling with a knife wastes a lot of fruit but perhaps I'm just not very skilled with a knife.
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@Fleura (34927)
• United Kingdom
3 Nov 15
I think it depends on the skill of the user, while a peeler cuts off a set thickness no matter what really.
@JudyEv (381760)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Dec 15
@paigea Peelers differ too. Some take too much; some will barely take any peel unless you really push on them. Luckily they're cheap but I'm still cheesed off if I buy one and it doesn't work well.
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
12 Dec 15
This is what I find. Maybe I have a really great peeler that works better than a knife.
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
12 Dec 15
I find it easier to get a thin slice with a peeler than with a knife. So, I use a peeller for apples and for everything. But yes, we all have our own ways of doing things and the other person's way seems wrong or at least odd.
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@porwest (112717)
• United States
16 Jan 25
I don't find it all that weird. I use one of those to peel potatoes and skin carrots. I hate using a paring knife personally, and I would think you'd lose more using a knife. As for my wife, everything about her annoys me. That' why we have a sign on our front bathroom wall that says, "Mariage is finding that special person you wish to annoy for the rest of your life." We have both succeeded amazingly in this.
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@Fleura (34927)
• United Kingdom
16 Jan 25
That's very true, when you live with someone you really find their little habits annoying sometimes. You can peel things more thinly with a knife, with a bit of practice. I'm just lazy nowadays when it comes to root vegetables, but plenty of times I do notice that I am sweeping off unnecessarily thick strips.
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@porwest (112717)
• United States
17 Jan 25
@Fleura Yeah, for me the peeler just works better and is more precise. Besides, I am clumsy. Best to leave the knives in the drawer for this one. lol
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