My Children
@just4him (323168)
Green Bay, Wisconsin
December 6, 2015 9:29pm CST
I thought I would introduce my family to you.
I have three children - Aaron is my oldest, Shiloh is next, and Edgar is my youngest.
I've mentioned my oldest in a couple comments lately, so I thought I would tell you about my children in hopefully a good light since I do love them all very much and I would do almost anything for them.
Aaron is ADHD. From the time he was born I needed to be steps ahead of him or my day was a disaster. He had learning problems as well as being hyper. He couldn't and can't sit still for very long unless it's something he is really interested in. Cars is his main love. He's taught himself a lot about cars. He works with a couple temp agencies in Green Bay and one sent him on the job opportunity of a lifetime a couple weeks ago. It was only supposed to be one day, but he's still working with the shop and as you can imagine, totally loves it. He's talking about getting his GED and then going on to become ACE certified.
One thing about Aaron is his anger issues. Because of his absolute need to be in complete control at all times, he has anger issues when things don't go his way. As a result of his anger issues I needed to put him on a restraining order on several occasions. The last one expired a year ago, and since then things have been better, but there is no way we can be under the same roof for any length of time - him living with me. We tried that a couple times and the last time resulted in a four year restraining order. Therefore right now he is in a homeless shelter because he has no other place to live, and quite frankly I don't want to put another restraining order on him if he gets out of hand with his anger.
Aaron is also an intelligent young man. He is the only one holding him back from his full potential.
Aaron had/has a daughter, but due to issues between he and his ex-fiancee his daughter was taken from him and has since been adopted.
Shiloh is my daughter. She has a strong head on her shoulders. She got into her share of trouble as a child, but has since turned her life around. Compared to her brother, she is more sedate and even tempered. She isn't afraid to call the kettle black. She married three years ago to a wonderful man. She has three children, and is now a two time grandmother. Yes, that makes me a great grandmother.
Shiloh has her bachelors degree in business and intends to go on to getting her masters degree.
We've had our issues in the past, and our relationship broke down, but fences are being mended. She's talking to me more and even calling me with suggestions as one post showed.
Currently she has three jobs - insurance agent, working with the bell ringers at Salvation Army, and does Pure Romance parties.
Edgar is my youngest. His first name is Harold, but since that was his father's name and it brought confusion when he was a baby, he's Edgar - his middle name. He has been living with me for six years I think. Jon was 14 when they moved in and he's 20 now, so yes, six years. Had to figure that out. Jon moved out when he turned 18. He didn't like living with me and my rules.
Edgar also has a strong head on his shoulders. He has also been my emotional support on occasion. He is a gamer when he isn't working at McDonald's or sleeping. So I've gotten to know the gaming world since he moved in. I don't play his games and my one time try at using a controller is a joke. My son bought me Sims 1 for the XBox and I couldn't get the hang of it. She always burned the house down before I could do anything to stop it. So if I play games, and I do, they are computer games.
Edgar is currently enrolled in college and intends to become a Forensic something in the Police Science program. However, right after he enrolled in the program, it was terminated from the college and the only thing he can do is take the gen ed classes. He wants to move to San Francisco where he said they have the best program for Forensic Science.
His son is Jonathon.
There is a brief picture of my children. I've felt the need to explain since I've mentioned in a couple comments that Aaron is in a homeless shelter.
I've shown pictures of them in the past. Unfortunately those pictures are on the desktop and I don't have access to them at the moment.
Thanks for reading.
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11 responses
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
7 Dec 15
the one in the homeless shelter is much like my younhest. i have had to face the same with him. your daughter is a lot like my youngest daughter and your other son similar to the one i live with except he hopefully don't sell the house put from under you. lol.
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@arthurchappell (44941)
• Preston, England
7 Dec 15
quite a remarkable family you have there
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@arthurchappell (44941)
• Preston, England
9 Dec 15
@just4him they obviously present something of a challenge but it comes across clearly that you love them all dearly
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
10 Dec 15
@arthurchappell They are a challenge. Yes, I do love them all very much.
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
7 Dec 15
many people burned the house down with sims, lol!
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
9 Dec 15
@just4him I just made mine microwave alot I think
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@Elizaby (6902)
• Pensacola, Florida
7 Dec 15
If Edgar is planning to move to San Francisco for the forensic program he needs to check with the college ti know what courses he is taking there in general ed classes are transferable so he doesn't waste time or money on courses that are not.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
7 Dec 15
hi @ just4him I know it must be painful for you to put your autistic son in a homeless shelter but sometimes you have to do what you have to do.I have a friend who had to do something similar wikth anautistic daughter whom got so angry she would klnock her mom down. sad.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
8 Dec 15
He's not autistic, he's Attention Deficit, Hyper Active - ADHD. He also told me he's bipolar.
@suziecat7 (3349)
• Asheville, North Carolina
7 Dec 15
We can only do our best. From your photo you look too young to be a great grandmother.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
8 Dec 15
My daughter was 17 when she had her first. That made me 39 I think when I became a grandmother. Her daughter was 20 or 21 when her first was born, the one in the picture. She now has a sister.
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
8 Dec 15
Yes there will. Right now we're all standing on a plateau, which is good.
@paigea (36143)
• Canada
7 Dec 15
I am sure that is a hard decision having your son in a homeless shelter. I am sure it is the necessary thing to do. I have a child who is completely estranged from me. I've learned to accept that. Families have many things to deal with. Take care.
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