Trekking Down Memory Lane - Part 3

@just4him (323168)
Green Bay, Wisconsin
December 31, 2015 7:39pm CST
My life starts to improve. Every time we went to the eye doctor at the recruiting station in town, I would read all the brochures for the various services. I thought long and hard about going into the service. I thought it would be a great way to get away from home. One night I decided I would go in the service, and wanted to know if that was what I should do and played high card for the answer. I figured two out of three. I got three out of three. Okay that meant I was going in, but which one - I liked both the Navy and Air Force so I flipped a coin and it came out Navy. I figured it was God's will for me to go in the Navy, and told my mother I wanted to go in the service. She told me Dad wouldn't let me. Mind you I was only 18 at the time, and a woman had to be 21 or have their father's signature on the papers. I told my mother, I was going in and I didn't care what Dad said about it. It was the boldest I had been in 18 years. My dad signed the papers, I went to Milwaukee to take the test, passed it, took the physical, passed it, got sworn into the Navy, and went home to wait for the phone call to report. I got it sooner than expected. I was supposed to go to Florida, however, they had room for candidates in the last companies at Bainbridge, Maryland. That recruiting base was closing with the last two companies. I was in company 30 of 31. I was going on my first plane trip ever. It was an exciting trip watching the landscape below and talking to the man next to me, who just happened to be Phyllis Dillar's doctor. He had stories about her, and said that despite how she was on TV and the things she said about her husband, she loved him very much. I flew into Baltimore International Airport and had to wait for the bus to take me to the base. The bus arrived and it was full, but not just with recruits. The bus also went to Annapolis before it went to Bainbridge. Boot Camp was ten weeks long. I learned a lot of Naval history as well as swimming classes where we learned how to survive in the water. There was drill, marching, and down time. I loved all of it. My mother said I wouldn't last because I couldn't take orders. I couldn't take her orders, not when they were filled with malice at every turn. I could take those orders with pleasure. Ten weeks later I was headed to my first duty base - North Island Naval Air Base - San Diego. It was there my whole life changed for the better or worse who really knows. I met my husband at the command I was stationed at. We had three kids, went to Guam, and when he got out of the Navy ended up in Elgin, Illinois for eleven years before coming to Green Bay and eventually divorcing. I was in the Navy for one year, two months and two days. They were the most exciting days of my entire life. Now I'm a grandmother and great grandmother and I love it. Life hasn't been easy these last 42 years, but they were better than the first eighteen. You might wonder how I survived my childhood. I started writing. I was eight years old when I began my writing career, though I didn't know it at the time. My stories helped me get through my childhood. However, the writing bug had gotten a good hold on me, and I never did stop writing, and now I have three published novels, one left to finish for that series, and many more to get ready for publishing. I have 50 titles, 14 finished novels, three of which are published.
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
1 Jan 16
You could make a book out of the three posts you've done here - your autobiography. It's all very interesting. Why did you leave the Navy - did you have to when you married?
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Jan 16
I had to when I got pregnant. I tried to stay in, but I had a commanding officer who believed pregnant women did not belong in the Navy. Six months after I got out they changed it to where women could not get out because they found women got pregnant to get out, and six months after that they made it woman's choice. I loved the Navy and tried to stay in submitting chit after chit to stay in - those are memos. I got out six weeks before my son was born. I tried to get back in, but there was a Wave officer who disliked me enough to put an unre-enlistable code on my honorable discharge.
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
1 Jan 16
@just4him That is very unfortunate.
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
1 Jan 16
@just4him Thanks for explaining. It seems a bit unfair.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
1 Jan 16
wow. I sure admire you. I wrote to get through my childhood also and it was the only thing my mother ever complimented me on. but as you see even though I was told I had talent, I never pursued it and now likely never will. lol
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Jan 16
It's never too late.
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
2 Jan 16
I am actually curious about the navy, what did you do? how was your term so short?
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• Centralia, Missouri
3 Jan 16
@just4him oh that actually sounds fun!
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Jan 16
@Jessicalynnt It was fun. There was one officer who decided, because he took so long to read the boards and I sometimes fell asleep waiting, to teach me longitude and latitude on the huge wall map behind the couch I sat on while in his office.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Jan 16
I love d the navy. I worked in Radio routing the message boards to the officers in the command. It was short because I was pregnant and at that time women didn't stay in if they were pregnant, though I wanted to. They sent me to every wave officer who stayed in and had children to talk me out of wanting to stay in.
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
1 Jan 16
You have done a lot of writing! It sounds like you did well once you tool life into your own hands.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
3 Jan 16
@just4him Oh no so your husband was one of those types of people also.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Jan 16
I've done better since I divorced. I didn't have anyone putting me down anymore, including my husband.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Jan 16
@Marcyaz He verbally abused me always telling me I couldn't do something and made me feel I was worthless. Though I loved him, it was a good day when we divorced.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
1 Jan 16
you have a clear picture of your life, and that is good. Good luck on your books, my friend.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
2 Jan 16
Thank you. I'm just waiting to get a new computer so I can get back to it.
@fishtiger58 (29819)
• Momence, Illinois
1 Jan 16
Pretty impressive that you have written that many novels.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Jan 16
Thanks. As soon as I can get the last one finished for the series I have published, I'll start getting the others published and finished.
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@fishtiger58 (29819)
• Momence, Illinois
1 Jan 16
@just4him good luck
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
3 Jan 16
I a glad you stood up for yourself against your parents and went into the Navy and learned a lot of things. Then meeting your husband and having children makes a difference in your life.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
3 Jan 16
@just4him It was a good thing that you listened to God's hand in those cards.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Jan 16
@Marcyaz Yes it was. I might not always be bold in what I want, but I'm not the wimpy kid I was when I was growing up.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Jan 16
It took a lot for me to do so. If it weren't for the cards showing me the direction I should go, I wouldn't have. I know it was God in the turn of those cards.
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@Auntylou (4262)
• Oxford, England
1 Jan 16
What an interesting life. Glad you decided to write :o)
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Jan 16
Thank you
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