How to Know If You Are Ready For A Relationship? / myLot

@Shavkat (141906)

Philippines

February 5, 2016 7:59am CST

I had read a book that a person is ready to have a relationship if they can make the plants stay alive or take good care of their own pet. I think it is reasonable method as an indicator of being ready to be committed to someone. If the plant or animal died because of negligence, then it is a big sign for not having a long-term relationship with somebody. Since I am single, I had put this mind. I had planted some floral plants in the backyard and it blooms beautifully. In addition, I had also catered three dogs in the house. All plants and my pets had sustained its existence. But then, all my relationships didn’t last long. “Does it mean this method is a false statement?”

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Pose123

@Pose123 (21635)

• Canada

7 Feb 16

I think there is a great difference between the two but in some ways it makes a lot of sense. I think you are ready for a relationship but must also find the person who is as committed as you are. Blessings.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

7 Feb 16

@Pose123 I agree. I need to be vigilant on that. I need a person who knows how to handle and ready to have a serious commitment.

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cherigucchi

@cherigucchi (15934)

• Philippines

6 Feb 16

I heard about this too but I don't think that plants have something to do with being ready in a relationship.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

6 Feb 16

@cherigucchi As you've said, what makes a plant to determine your faith of being in a serious relationship.

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alchemistrx

@alchemistrx (2547)

• Philippines

17 Feb 16

I don't think that's all of it.Plants and animals don't say anything. Some relationships end because of miscommunication or no communication at all.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

17 Feb 16

@alchemistrx I think it refers to how you care with other people physically. But then, a relationship is serious commitment physically, financially, mentally and socially.

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myLot Prince (LOL)

@trivia79 (7827)

• El Segundo, California

6 Feb 16

what about me? We have a family cats and I'm not the only one taking good care of them... hehe

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

6 Feb 16

@trivia79 That's nice. Try to show care to your cutesy cat.

Who knows someone out there will give interest on your passionate care with the animals.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

9 Feb 16

@trivia79 It seems that I possess the quality then.

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myLot Prince (LOL)

@trivia79 (7827)

• El Segundo, California

8 Feb 16

@Shavkat haha. i remembered, i have a read a psychology article before about having certain attitude and link it to the kind of pet you have. For cat owners, they are usually caring, sweet, and humble hehe

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Marie

@hellopeeps (403)

• United States

6 Feb 16

False yes for sure. Depends who you are and who you are with that is for sure. Depends who you love to. If you like the person. If you want it to work. If both people want it to work. I am in a dilemma right now with a friend if I want it to work anymore if I even like them anymore. I will take my time sometimes you have to take your time and see if it works out.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

6 Feb 16

I do agree on that. It should be both need to know how to save a relationship. If it doesn't work out, then there's no need to continue.

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