Yay for Big One!

@Fleura (34943)
United Kingdom
February 12, 2016 1:14pm CST
Last week we had a session of re-organising Big One’s bedroom. Big One has a decent-sized bedroom, so she had lots of her books and toys stored there. Little one has a tiny room so there’s only just room for her bed and a chest of drawers for clothes. She hasn’t complained yet, but the problem was that Big One had lots of toys she didn’t really play with any more taking up space in her room, and Little One couldn’t play with them either because Big One didn’t like her going into her room and playing with ‘her’ stuff. So we decided we may as well sacrifice our front room and use it mainly as a playroom – after all we don’t often have visitors anyway, it’s the girls who have the social life these days. The girls both agreed to the plan and we spent half a day deconstructing and reassembling a big shelving unit and carting storage boxes, toys and games downstairs. After all that Big One was still left with a few piles of books on her bedroom floor, so obviously some more bookshelves were needed. I looked in various places online and trawled the local charity shops in the hope of finding a decent set of shelves, but couldn’t find what we needed, so in the end I went to Homebase and bought a flat-pack wood-effect bookcase. When Big One got home from school I presented her with the box and handed over a screwdriver and hammer. At first she looked a bit nonplussed but once she’d opened it up, looked through the instructions and worked out which bits were which she was enthusiastic and spent a happy hour or so putting it all together. So not only does she have some new shelves but some useful experience too – after all if she’s stuck for money in a few years, she can always assemble other people’s flat-pack furniture! (I wouldn’t have believed people genuinely earned a living doing this except I know someone who hired a man to assemble furniture for them). All rights reserved. © Text and image copyright Fleur 2016.
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@amadeo (111937)
• United States
12 Feb 16
that is me.Cannot hammer a nail in straight.:-)
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• Preston, England
13 Feb 16
I'm hopeless at any kind of domestic handiwork - hammering usually involves thumb-hitting a lot for me
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
14 Feb 16
I could never hammer a nail straight myself and my Dad was a house builder!
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@Fleura (34943)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 16
@arthurchappell You have to look at the thing you're hitting and not the hammer, that's the secret!
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@LadyDuck (502208)
• Italy
13 Feb 16
I love to assemble furniture, I am glad that your big one also appreciated the task.
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@LadyDuck (502208)
• Italy
13 Feb 16
@Fleura I agree, I love to make things myself.
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@Fleura (34943)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 16
Making things - even if some of the work has already been done for you - is a very satisfying experience.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
12 Feb 16
Some people can not even hammer a nail in straight so they have to hire someone to assemble their furniture.
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@Fleura (34943)
• United Kingdom
12 Feb 16
When my partner and I first moved to this house I had to teach him how to use a hammer!
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
13 Feb 16
@Fleura Wow really, my father showed me how to use tools when I was a child and I did a lot of assembling and fixing myself.
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@Fleura (34943)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 16
@Marcyaz Good for you. I don't like to feel helpless either.
@DWDavis (25797)
• United States
16 Feb 16
We are in the opposite phase here at my house. Our sons are grown and have moved out so we are trying to regain some of the space taken up with their "stuff" for all these years. We finally cleaned enough "stuff" out of the garage that we can actually park a car in there for the first time in 20 years.
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@DWDavis (25797)
• United States
16 Feb 16
@Fleura They've donated to charity what they didn't want to keep and taken most of the rest. We've still got some boxes of their stuff in the attic and the closets of their bedrooms.
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@Fleura (34943)
• United Kingdom
16 Feb 16
Can you still remember how to get in? I hope the 'boys' have taken their stuff away to clutter up their own places!
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
14 Feb 16
Good for her. I refuse to buy anything in a flat pack as neither my husband and I are good with our hands.
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
15 Feb 16
@Fleura Lol - I'll bear that in mind!
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@Fleura (34943)
• United Kingdom
15 Feb 16
I could send Big One round to give you a hand!
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@JudyEv (381843)
• Rockingham, Australia
13 Feb 16
Once she got over the surprise I'm sure she would have enjoyed putting the bookshelves together. The unit looks really nice.
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• United States
13 Feb 16
I have always told my children to rely on yourself for things that need to be done. Even if you have a significant other that can do it for you.
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• Preston, England
13 Feb 16
sounds quite a creative experience preparing the room and for her mastering the assembly process too
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@Fleura (34943)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 16
She enjoyed it; I think she would be keen to do more but we don't need anything else at the moment!
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@Dragonairy1 (1722)
• Newcastle Upon Tyne, England
14 Feb 16
That was a great idea, and I'm sure it will prove useful to her in the future.
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@garymarsh6 (23978)
• United Kingdom
14 Feb 16
Excellent what a brilliant idea. It is amazing that you can get a four year old to do. Have you sent her up the chimney yet? Seriously though well done for getting her to do it. Just shows that these things are easy for kids to put together its just adults who can't!
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@Fleura (34943)
• United Kingdom
15 Feb 16
I hope it will give her confidence to tackle things in later years!
• Budennovsk, Russian Federation
13 Feb 16
Great. But i dont think it would work with IKEA furniture
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• Budennovsk, Russian Federation
13 Feb 16
@Fleura as far as i know it is not easy to assemble
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@Fleura (34943)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 16
Why not?
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@PainsOnSlate (21845)
• Canada
13 Feb 16
You are a smart mother. Teaching them how to do it themselves is a life lesson. Good job Mom
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@Fleura (34943)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 16
Thanks! I am always amazed that people don't know how to do such things.
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
17 Feb 16
Sounds like a good plan to create a playroom. My girls learned to put together such things at a young age too. A useful skill to have.
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@Fleura (34943)
• United Kingdom
17 Feb 16
Using tools and being able follow instructions can be applied in many areas!
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