Gotta Watch Out For Those Buses
By DW Davis
@DWDavis (25797)
United States
February 19, 2016 7:11pm CST
Metaphorical buses, that is. My Principal called me to her office today to show me an e-mail she'd received from a parent. The parent was complaining about something I'd allegedly told his wife, and about me not responding to notes from his wife about setting up a conference, inferring the notes had been sent recently.
In fact, the notes were from last fall, and I had called and set up a conference, and they blew us off - never called, never e-mailed, never rescheduled. On top of that, he'd totally spun what I'd said to his wife - with whom I get along great - the day before when we'd talked to set up a new conference time.
To top it off, he'd blind copied a big wig at Central Office, who then e-mailed my Principal, who then called me to her office to ask me what was going on. I explained the whole thing and showed her my documentation. Now she has to respond to the big wig.
Knowing how intimidated by parents our Central Office staff and Board is, and how weakly they support teachers, I may still get thrown under the bus. If I do, that's okay, I'm already looking at jobs outside education.
What do you think of a parent lying on a teacher, especially when that parent never even talked to the teacher, and the teacher's being taken to task for something he isn't guilty of and proves it with documentation, all because the district administration is afraid to stand up to parents and support its own teachers?
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
21 Feb 16
@DWDavis That and the lousy pay that the state gives the teachers. Sorry for all of the problems.
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@Drosophila (16568)
• Ireland
20 Feb 16
What triggered this madness from the parent?
Is there a way to figure out and compromise
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@DWDavis (25797)
• United States
21 Feb 16
He's one of those people who is always looking for a reason to be angry. He won't be satisfied until someone gets reprimanded or shuts him up with the facts. Fortunately, I have the facts on my side. Unfortunately, with our central office, that may not be enough. I'll be spending a good part of tomorrow working on my resume.
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@Drosophila (16568)
• Ireland
21 Feb 16
@DWDavis oh goodness! am sorry to hear about that. I do hope things turn out better
@JamesHxstatic (29410)
• Eugene, Oregon
20 Feb 16
Sounds like some spineless reactions to bad parents. The same kind of thing can happen in the corporate world though. There is a CYA obsession everywhere.
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@HebrewGreekStudies (1646)
• Canada
20 Feb 16
Oddly enough I see things like this among clergy-this is a reason why some priests and pastors are difficult to get ahold of, because they are cautious about ppl potentially being unstable or creating situations-as such, things like emails and monthly reports are kept for professional reasons. I think the best safeguard about that, and keeping people on both sides protected, are records and reviews. It is bad when a professional abuses their position, but it is also bad when ppl are as you say, scapegoated for things they did not do or at times conversations which were never had.
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@AliCanary (4387)
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20 Feb 16
Why are they afraid of parents, anyway? Don't you teach at a public school? It's not like they are going to take their business elsewhere!
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@DWDavis (25797)
• United States
20 Feb 16
They fear getting sued. Vultures...I mean lawyers...love to find parents who have the slightest reason to sue the school district. Thanks to the demonization of school teachers by our state legislature, and the litigation atmosphere, the elected Board kowtows to the whims of the parents instead of what is best for the education of the children.
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