Should I have my son's IQ tested?
By maxen07
@maxen07 (882)
Philippines
April 25, 2016 7:48am CST
I went to my uncle's wake this late afternoon to take a breather from my computer. It was high time I came for a visit and as silly as it may sound, even a wake was a welcoming change to my fixed daily routine.
Anyway, I had a talk with my aunt and she told me that my son Ian has been the entertainer and would talk to just about anyone with whatever he's learned for the day or just random facts. He's the only kid in our entire compound so he has no playmates his age. He'd talk to adults a lot, which was no surprise to me. But just tonight, my aunt mentioned that Ian also had a chat with retired history professor from an exclusive school up north (La Salle Zobel for those who are familiar with the university). Ian also chatted up an engineer and other professionals who came to the wake. They all told me aunt that my son should have his IQ tested at a Mensa affiliated school, I think.
My son is bookish and likes watching documentaries, things he picked up from me and my brothers. He'd sometimes watch with us but mostly on his own on YouTube. His interests borders on science and history, he likes copying foreign alphabets, watches archaeological/paranormal documentaries, watching random facts videos, and DIY videos like Man At Arms and makes his own paper swords and guns when he's bored. He likes discussing those with anyone, although he may not get some of the facts straight. Part of me thinks this is just his interest now that will go away eventually. He's in the honor roll but is not at the top of his class. He's an intelligent boy and I would like to think that there's more to him than his report card. Perhaps I should get him tested when I have enough money to go to the capital.
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@GardenGerty (169439)
• United States
25 Apr 16
My question for you is what will you do differently after you have him tested? Anything in particular? Do not have him tested just for the sake of the test. If it is a crucial part of an ongoing plan that is a different story.
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@maxen07 (882)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
I thought that if he has the potential, I was told that maybe the proper authorities to this will recommend a school where he can take a scholarship, if there is one for elementary school students. I am in doubt that there are schools that would waive off tuition fees in full so I'd definitely need to work harder to support his needs.
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@fishtiger58 (29819)
• Momence, Illinois
25 Apr 16
I think you should he sounds like a bright boy. I had my son tested as he entered the 5th grade, He tested at 169 which is quite high. The reason I did this was so he could get special classes for the bright students. It was the only way to get him into classes like that. It was a very wise decision. My son is almost 24 now, he has his bachelors degree in Physics, and will have his Master's Degree next month. He will continue on with his education and will get his PhD in Astro Physics in 3 or 4 more years. Then the world is his. He will be able to do whatever he wants in his chosen field. The sciences are the biggest and some say most important field of study today. My son got full academic scholarships at both universities he has attended.
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@maxen07 (882)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
Congratulations! That sounds wonderful. I could only hope that my son will be able to get anywhere near your son's achievements. My Ian said he wants to move to America to become a scientist, astronaut and engineer all at the same time, LOL! But I think he has the intelligence and enthusiasm for knowledge to become whatever he wants. He attended a special education school and was diagnosed with attention deficit disorder when he was little yet he has never left the honor roll since he attended a mainstream school. I don't know much about special classes. The US has more opportunities for bright young students and here, the best we can hope for is a discounted tuition fee. Perhaps I can get my son tested but I'm not sure if there will be opportunities for him to grow. I do worry because as of now, I barely have enough to support him, let alone bring him to an expensive school.
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@fishtiger58 (29819)
• Momence, Illinois
26 Apr 16
@maxen07 Yes for him a full ride academic ride would be ideal. As for the Attention deficit disorder, it's a diagnosis that is popular with doctors these days, I'm not sure I would worry to much about that for now. Much good luck to you and your son, I hope he achieves all he desires.
@cherriefic (10399)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
He doesn't have to be at the top of the class to be a genius. Who knows, he might be one? It's worth the try.
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@Letranknight2015 (52665)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
No, don't do it. You remember that gifted that was circled by the media back in the 90s? she ended up being a an fine arts major or something instead of being a doctor or scientist, being part of the crowd. it's better off if you let him lead an ordinary llife and warn him that not all youtube videos there are real.
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@Letranknight2015 (52665)
• Philippines
26 Apr 16
@maxen07 well, just keep him in the school and it's activities. he's intelligent and hard working student, that's what matters.
@Mike197602 (15504)
• United Kingdom
26 Apr 16
You could do that but I don't see it being relevant.
If you want him to go to a good school an IQ test will be irrelevant as most top schools I know of have their own tests.
Here in the UK you may have heard of Eton or Harrow.
IQ isn't part of their entrance tests and they're two of the top schools in the world...students need to pass their entrance tests.
If I was you I'd look at what top school your son wants to go to and get information on their entrance tests then get your son to revise accordingly.
IQ is not massively relevant to getting into a very top school in my opinion.
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