Have You Helped Someone This Week?
By Alice Henry
@IreneVincent (15960)
United States
April 28, 2016 3:11pm CST
Charles Dudley said, and I quote: “It is one of the beautiful compensations of this life that no one can sincerely try to help another without helping himself.”
I have always found this to be true. When I help someone, it makes ME feel good. It makes ME feel that perhaps I have made a difference in someone else’s life, for the better.
Sometimes, a person has to MAKE AN EFFORT to sincerely help someone. Visit the older ones that you know and give them an opportunity to have a conversation with someone, instead of just sitting at home every day and watching TV. Older ones, especially those who live alone, get lonely for the company of others. So, perhaps we can all think of someone who would appreciate a visit. You might even take a cupcake or small dish of food for them to enjoy later.
A phone call or a card is also appreciated. I send lots of cards and very often I receive kind words from those who receive my cards. I always try to include a scripture from the Bible or a small verse, usually one that I wrote myself.
When I visit someone, or receive a “thank you” from someone who has received one of my cards or verses, it makes ME feel good that I made the effort to show love to someone else. So, the benefit to ME is worth any effort that I have made.
Have you helped someone this week? If you have, then I know that you are happier because of it.
Have a wonderful day!
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@ElusiveButterfly (45941)
• United States
28 Apr 16
I have a client that likes to help others by sharing food with them. She asks if I have any clients that could use a little help. She puts together a package with various food items. I decide who to give it to. Can't share their names with her. She is delighted to be able to help. I am happy helping her and those she helps as well.
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@ElusiveButterfly (45941)
• United States
28 Apr 16
@IreneVincent this is going to become a bit tricky though. At a recent meeting we were told that we cannot bring food to a client. So, I have to do it on the sly.
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@IreneVincent (15960)
• United States
29 Apr 16
@ElusiveButterfly Oh well then, you must be careful. Perhaps there is something else you can do that is not risking your job.
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@IreneVincent (15960)
• United States
28 Apr 16
That sounds like a very nice arrangement. I'm sure that you both share in the happiness that comes from helping others. Fantastic!
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@IreneVincent (15960)
• United States
28 Apr 16
That's wonderful. When we help others, it brings joy to our hearts.
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@IreneVincent (15960)
• United States
28 Apr 16
@imravi Good for you! I know you received joy from doing so!
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@JudyEv (381760)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Apr 16
This is very true. I think most house-bound people get very lonely and a visit makes all the difference. Receiving mail is also good. If I decide to write to someone, I make a commitment (to myself) to write fortnightly/monthly whatever but not just the once and never again. This way they have something to look forward to and are not continually disappointed when nothing arrives.
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@IreneVincent (15960)
• United States
29 Apr 16
Yes, older persons especially like to receive something in the mail. That's something that the younger generation knows little about. To them it's all about email and text messages and Facebook, etc.
Very few older persons are in to the new technologies, so all they usually get in the mail, is either junk mail or bills. A cheerful little card once in a while, really can make their day. And it's so easy to do.
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