~Going To Bed Angry~
By Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
Valdosta, Georgia
July 11, 2016 1:57pm CST
My husband and I don't fight a whole lot, but when we do sometimes it gets a little crazy. Yesterday was one of those times where we were having an argument over something stupid. I was feeling insecure and he wasn't helping the situation at all-I needed reassuring that I wasn't getting is what it comes down to. Typical woman...I know. Lol.
Anyway, usually we don't go to bed angry because you just never know if one of you might not wake up the next day. Last night though my husband fell asleep and I laid there until I finally fell asleep. We both went to bed angry.
Today he apologized and said I never want to go to bed angry with you again. I agree-none of us will live forever... You just never know...
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
12 Jul 16
@RubyHawk Yeah, emotions get in the way for me and it feels worse than it actually is.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Jul 16
@LovingMyBabies Sometimes I think it's better to let the other know when you are angry and get it out in the open, That way, it doesn't build up into an explosion. But there should never be any violence.
@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
12 Jul 16
At least he apologised the next day. My husband and I never utter the words I'm sorry to each other. But we know we have forgiven each other when one speaks kindly to another once again.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
12 Jul 16
@LovingMyBabies Yeah just saying it doesn't exist to us.
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
12 Jul 16
@toniganzon That is so strange to me-we always apologize when we know we were wrong.
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
12 Jul 16
@amnabas Yeah they happen in all relationships.
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
11 Jul 16
@NJChicaa Really? I couldn't deal with a man that doesn't apologize-everyone makes mistakes.
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@teenspirit (1596)
• Israel
11 Jul 16
We must remember that we are hurt only those who we love :)
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
12 Jul 16
@teenspirit Yeah were going to try not to fight like that anymore but it happens at times.
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@sunilparthan (6302)
• India
11 Jul 16
When you going to bed should not be angry ... it's not good to health. So be cool . Have a nice sleep and enjoy
@DanieGirl80587 (2724)
• United States
11 Jul 16
Me and my husband have that rule too. Very rarely do we go to bed angry because like you said, you just never know.
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
11 Jul 16
@DanieGirl80587 Yeah, we don't often go to bed angry and we both felt bad that we did that last night.
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@DanieGirl80587 (2724)
• United States
11 Jul 16
@LovingMyBabies Yeah we hate it too. My husband is normally the 1 to apologize first as well. :-)
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@DaddyEvil (174224)
• United States
12 Jul 16
I've been there and done that, too!
It isn't something that should ever happen, but sometimes.... our emotions get the best of us... When that happens, the best thing you can do is ignore each other. If you try to talk, one of you will still be too mad to talk. Then the fighting just starts all over again.
