Mom was a hoarder

Commerce, Georgia
July 14, 2016 2:19am CST
My mom, bless her heart wanted to save everything. The first I'll talk about is her magazines. She saved True Story, Woman's Day, Prevention, Crime Detective and other magazine. She had a table, book case type of thing chock full of magazines. In the 1960s she had a hoard as far back as 1960. You couldn't touch them. She was always going to read them or do the crosswords in them or copy the recipes onto index cards. It looked a mess because the magazines spilled out on top of the table. So...when mom and dad went to Florida on vacation I tossed out about 100 magazines which were mostly the 1960s decade of mags. I tally didn't think she would notice, but she did. She raised holey moley! I told her they just sit there and collect dust. She says she has not had the time to read them yet. So on it went. Another thing she hoarded was Tupperware bowels of leftovers in the refrigerators. They would sit in the fridge until what was inside the bowls looked like science experiments. I'm serious. She was growing I don't know how many strains of mold. When she was sleeping I would toss out the bowls without cleaning them out. I didn't want to eat anythinh stored in a moldy container. She would get so mad. I asked her why she had to save it when she is never going to eat it? I asked if there was a rule to save 3 months in the fridge before tossing it? I think mom really needed counselling for her hoarding. Like what side she miss in her life that she had to save useless things. The only thing I ever got out of her was living during the depression. Not a very good excuse mom. You grew up in a prominent family. Maybe she felt powerless over something and her hoards satisfied a need. I don't know but I could not live in a trash heap and I didnt.
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@aarifa (1210)
• India
14 Jul 16
my mom like this too.
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• Commerce, Georgia
14 Jul 16
It's aggravating too, isn't it?
@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
14 Jul 16
Hoarding,is a relatively common disorder among the elder community. It gets progressively worse as a person gets older. Hoarding is also a proven link to depression. Maybe, it is best if you always talk to your mom. Let her feel that she is important and loved. Maybe she is undergoing emotional problems that you do not know about.
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• Commerce, Georgia
14 Jul 16
Yes, it does seem to exacerbate the problem.
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• Commerce, Georgia
15 Jul 16
@magallon there is no getting over it when it Is ingrained into their psyche.. They need therapy and part of that is having the hoarder separate herself or himself from the hoarded items. They have to do the work with help or they never learn.
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@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
15 Jul 16
@OreoBrownie Somebody should help her overcome that hoarding disorder.
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@celticeagle (189820)
• Boise, Idaho
14 Jul 16
My mom was a hoarder too. She was brought up during the depression and couldn't throw anything away. She had a big garage where so much was stored. I held a big estate sale when she passed and made thousands on the old furniture and such that she had kept.
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@celticeagle (189820)
• Boise, Idaho
14 Jul 16
@OreoBrownie .....Sort of like a legacy she left me.
• Commerce, Georgia
14 Jul 16
That was a great idea.
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• Preston, England
14 Jul 16
I tend to hoard but not old food stuffs - quite fussy about sell by / eat by dates
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• Commerce, Georgia
14 Jul 16
Yes, my daughter goes by the dates.
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@jstory07 (148720)
• Roseburg, Oregon
14 Jul 16
That had to be hard on you seeing that mess while you were growing up.
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
14 Jul 16
It is a serious problem for some people. Glad that my parents were not hoarder. Everything was always kept in order.
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• Commerce, Georgia
14 Jul 16
It's a mental disorder. I would have guessed they are just nasty, but ut is an illness.