On The Retrospect
By Artemeis
@artemeis (4189)
China
August 9, 2016 2:26am CST
A couple of days ago, my daughter suddenly popped the question on how I was able to determine that her father was the right man for me back in time. As sudden as the question, I just wasn't prepared at all but I had to admit that it was just some tell tale signs about her father that I liked i.e. clean, tidy, shaved, pleasant and comfortable to be around.
At the same time, I told her that I hate to bear the truth that it is pure much about guess work as far as how her father, my husband would turn out because there are simply no more tell tale signs after that about how well things will turn out but the bad ones. I suppose that's how things are as far as relationships are nowadays and there's really no telling just how reliable your other half could be.
Only time can tell how he would turn out to be.
Something to ponder.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3728007/Woman-desperately-reaches-boyfriend-falls-cliff-moves-AWAY.html
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6 responses
@louievill (28846)
• Philippines
9 Aug 16
We can pick and choose and have standards and criteria but it does not always happen, I am a believer of destiny when it comes to these things, its like waking up and our real and true partner is already there
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@artemeis (4189)
• China
25 Aug 16
@louievill
I don't know how that could have happened but I suppose that's because the both of you have had it smooth sailing. Wait till the both of you are faced with a crisis then I am sure you will know that your choice has been right since the beginning.
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@louievill (28846)
• Philippines
18 Aug 16
@artemeis maybe effort and hard work is good for career and money but in choosing our partners it does not always turn out the way we like. Yes our principes and standards would always be there with us but in choosing a partner, sometimes we get more or we get less than what we expect
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@changjiangzhibin89 (17239)
• China
9 Aug 16
It is something that you can't account for sometimes.This is why some people say it must be fate for a couple to be together.
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@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
13 Aug 16
Aw 
How old is your daughter? She must be smart to be asking you that question. I'd probably need a couple of minutes to come up with a good answer 
How old is your daughter? She must be smart to be asking you that question. I'd probably need a couple of minutes to come up with a good answer 1 person likes this
@artemeis (4189)
• China
17 Aug 16
I'll keep her age a secret and hint that she's already a young adult in a relationship. I suppose with whatever that has been happening around I can understand what she's going through but relationships these days are really becoming different from what I've been through in my days.
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@ilocosboy (45155)
• Philippines
9 Aug 16
Simply because you love your husband and you just know he will be the loving Dad for your daughter.
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