Making friends with past lovers? Could you do it?
By Curlann
@annierose (21977)
United States
August 25, 2016 7:20pm CST
Many people have different opinions on this. Some can do but others can't. Reasons vary and it is such a sad thing that some could not make it to even say hi or hello to the person who were a part of his or her life before. But, I do not judge them. I had been on several break ups too and it was really not easy to make friends with them.
How was your relationship with your ex?
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
26 Aug 16
I have no desire to be friends withave any exs. When it over its over. I may pass them on the street and I may say hi or I may not that is enough for me. Why would I want to be their friend? To each their own but it isn't for me.
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@annierose (21977)
• United States
26 Aug 16
I understand. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.How are you today?
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
26 Aug 16
@annierose oh I am not too often bad. Just getting ready to head off to bed soon. Have to work in the morning.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
26 Aug 16
I am friends with an ex of mine. In fact, before he left Europe we were able to chat for about 30 minutes. Friendly chat of course but no mention of our present relationships.
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@annierose (21977)
• United States
26 Aug 16
@toniganzon I usually do the same thing with my ex. After many years since we broke up, I can still talk to them but of course no more romantic feelings like before.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
26 Aug 16
@annierose Well of course that's why they're labeled as EX!
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@LeaPea2417 (40020)
• Toccoa, Georgia
26 Aug 16
I have an ex boyfriend who I tried to be friends with after we broke up, but he had personal problems and he was kind of 'stalker' like towards me (like he hoped to get back together). So, I had to really be forceful and with the help of my parents, let him know it was really over.
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@annierose (21977)
• United States
27 Aug 16
I hate stalker. I experienced that before with an ex-friend who assumed that I have feelings for him. I felt annoyed and afraid of him at the same time.
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@annierose (21977)
• United States
28 Aug 16
@LeaPea2417 I understand. It is really such a relief. 
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@LeaPea2417 (40020)
• Toccoa, Georgia
27 Aug 16
@annierose Yes, when my ex boyfriend heard through the grapevine that I ended up getting married to another guy (someone he knew), he did leave me alone, thank goodness.
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@Drosophila (16568)
• Ireland
26 Aug 16
non-existent! first one is a nutter and a bit of a stalker.. so no way I'm keeping in touch.
the second one, we just lead such different lives now, it's very pointless to try to communicate. So ya, lacks motivation, inclination, and don't see the point lol
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@annierose (21977)
• United States
26 Aug 16
I hope you have a better love life now.
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@annierose (21977)
• United States
27 Aug 16
@Drosophila I think they just came in our life to teach us a lesson.
@annierose (21977)
• United States
26 Aug 16
I hope you will be having a new love life soon, much better than him. 
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@AkoPinay (11496)
• Philippines
26 Aug 16
Thank you @annierose I have a new, better than him in other ways but not in blogging
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