Burial Or Cremation? What Do You Choose?

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There are numerous different customs and traditions from around the world in regards to what is done with the body after death. In the Western World burial is by far the most popular tradition. I'm not sure there are any towns in America without at least a tiny cemetery. Of course, before the White Man invaded the most popular tradition among the native people of North America was the funeral pyre. The dead body was placed upon a pyre of logs and then set on fire. As the body burned, its essence traveled with the smoke up to the heavens. Cremation is becoming more popular in America these days. It's less expensive than burial and you get to keep an urn full of the dead person's ashes on your mantelpiece--unless the dead person requested their ashes to be spread somewhere. I know a woman with 6 urns on her mantelpiece; one with the ashes of her dead husband and the others with ashes of her pets. Personally, I would hate to be buried in a cemetery with a headstone that people can visit and place flowers on. To me that's creepy. The person's soul is long gone and the only thing in the grave is a decomposing corpse. Wouldn't it be better to honor someone's life through your memories of them and through your expressions rather than at some head stone? Then there is the tradition of the ancient Zoroastrian religion. They also build a pyre of logs then they strip the dead body naked and place it atop the pyre. But instead of burning the body they just leave it on the pyre for buzzards to come and pick the bones clean of flesh. This is like the ultimate form of recycling. Personally, I think it would be cool to have my dead body dumped out in the middle of the desert so it can be devoured by coyotes and snakes and bobcats and vultures, leaving nothing but bones to be bleached by the hot desert sun. Seriously, I think this is the best option--for me. Have you drawn up a will that indicates your preferred method of dealing with your body when you kick the bucket? Burial or cremation? Or burial at sea? Or the Eskimo custom of putting you on an ice flow and letting you flow out to sea? How much thought have you given this? What do you want to happen to your body once you disengage from it?