How would you react if your partner get your cellphone out of jealousy?
By nita04
@nita04 (268)
Philippines
September 9, 2016 7:53pm CST
My husband is already 67 of age and a sudden change of attitude. He has negative thoughts to the people I am close with and came to a point of getting my cellphone because he was thinking that I communicating to the person he is very jealous of. What would I do?
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
10 Sep 16
Were you talking to this person? I have ever no problem with giving my fiance my phone and he is the same way. We have nothing to hide from each other. Jealousy is a terrible thing. You need to reassure him that he has nothing to worry about. Communication is the key.
@nita04 (268)
• Philippines
10 Sep 16
I never hide anything from him. My cellphone is open for him to check but the problem is he doesn't know how to operate. He should not be thinking bad because I also am trying to encourage him to know how to operate the gadget so that he can see what's on my phone. His mind is so close.
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
10 Sep 16
@nita04 then take the phone from him and shoe him yourself that you have nothing to hide. He is being unreasonable.
@EMbakes (1142)
• Philippines
10 Sep 16
May I ask if there were instances that you somehow broke his trust, because if not, then he must've personal issues that he's having a hard time dealing. Maybe he's up to hiding something or what. I don't want to sound suspicious, but there could be a reason why he's acting like that. 
If I were you, I would try to talk to him.
If I were you, I would try to talk to him.@nita04 (268)
• Philippines
10 Sep 16
Ever since in my life I have never been unfaithful to anybody, that is why I am confused why he is acting like this. He is my first and last man. Sometimes I will justify it by telling myself maybe he is insecure because I am younger than him. But no matter what justification I make to myself, I just can not comprehend, because I too am already old, and him behaving at this time of our lives?
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@EMbakes (1142)
• Philippines
10 Sep 16
@nita04 Ddi you try talking to him about this? For sure, there's really something that bothers him. Maybe, he's insecurities did really affect him big time. Maybe, he's keeping that for a long time already since he knows that you're much younger than him.
I wish you two can be able to patch things up. It's evident that you love him much. Hope he realises that.
Maybe, he's insecurities did really affect him big time. Maybe, he's keeping that for a long time already since he knows that you're much younger than him.
I wish you two can be able to patch things up. It's evident that you love him much. Hope he realises that.