Punctuality is respecting someone's time.
By emelsmarie
@EMbakes (1142)
Philippines
September 12, 2016 1:34am CST
In our country, there's what we call Filipino time. If we should meet up by 9 in the morning, people will surely arrive at 10 in the morning onwards. It's a bad habit/practise that people here are applying in their daily lives. Accordingly, the standard is 15 minutes early, but it seldom happens in our country.
I used to arrive early before, but since people usually comes 1 to 2 hours late, I had to adjust. 

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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
12 Sep 16
i am ever punctual, and that is what i always imbibe to my students' minds.punctuality is a virtue of a nurse
I am noted to be punctual, or arrive earlier than the scheduled time. Yesterday, I arrived at 6:38 AM, and there were no students yet. They should be in the...
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 Sep 16
@EMbakes i am, and i always tell them to practice punctuality. this morning, despite the showers, i came to school at 6:50. my students who were the presenters for the case colloquium, were already in the classroom at 6:45 AM.
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@EMbakes (1142)
• Philippines
14 Sep 16
@ridingbet Wow! I hope that even if they're no longer your students, they can apply that trait to their daily lives; especially, some of them will be expose to public hospitals.
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
12 Sep 16
That seems a bit odd so why set a meeting up for a certain time if nobody is going to bother to show until hours later. Why not just set it for late? I am never late and always arrive early out of common courtesy. I couldn't do that to anybody but if it is the norm as it is there then I guess people don't expect you to show up on time anyway.
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
12 Sep 16
@EMbakes That seems strange to me but I guess you are just use to it now so to you it would be normal.
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@EMbakes (1142)
• Philippines
12 Sep 16
@Happy2BeMe We got use to. That's the saddest part.
I wish this bad habit will soon be put to a stop.
I wish this bad habit will soon be put to a stop.1 person likes this

@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
12 Sep 16
I have to laugh a little because I know of this Filipino time. We have many Filipino friends and they all talk about this. When they have get togethers that include us, we are usually there no later than a half hour from the time they have told us to come. But I know they have relatives that will come much, much later . . . they sometimes start rolling in when we are about to leave!!
But I know other cultures are similar with time. I remember my cousin's wedding - he married a Vietnamese/Chinese gal and my aunt warned all of us that the wedding will most likely be on their "late" time . . . and sure enough the reception room did not fill until 2 hours after our side of the family had already been there . . . and everyone was dying of hunger as dinner was VERY late!
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
14 Sep 16
@EMbakes Oh yes, we love our Filipino friends!! But they know both ends of it. They accommodate those of us on "regular" time . . . and then they do what they do for those who stroll in on "Filipino" time. It's all good, but it's sure one super long party!
I don't know about current Japan, but my parents were too punctual (yes, I am Japanese but born in the US). My dad would make sure we were at places early so we would NOT be late. Oh my dad would be more than angry if we made it somewhere and we were late!
So knowing that my family is Japanese, you can imagine for that cousin's wedding, all the Japanese guests were there on time. Half the room was sitting around while the bride's family came in late because they all knew it would be on late time. Maybe they were smart and went to go eat a snack! 
I don't know about current Japan, but my parents were too punctual (yes, I am Japanese but born in the US). My dad would make sure we were at places early so we would NOT be late. Oh my dad would be more than angry if we made it somewhere and we were late!
So knowing that my family is Japanese, you can imagine for that cousin's wedding, all the Japanese guests were there on time. Half the room was sitting around while the bride's family came in late because they all knew it would be on late time. Maybe they were smart and went to go eat a snack! 
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@EMbakes (1142)
• Philippines
15 Sep 16
@much2say You should listen to your aunt instead when she said the wedding's going to start late.
I love Japan so much. I have never been there and I wanted to visit there so badly.
I saw photo last time on Facebook. It's about a Japanese guy sleeping. It states that Japanese respect those people who sleep during their work time because it is a sure sign that, the man is working so hard.
It's good to hear that you have Filipino friends.
Whenever we have parties, there are still those who come really early. Some of us were still busy organising everybody and there's this person whom we call the entertainer. He or she is responsible to entertain the guests and accommodate them to their seats.
That's usually the scenario here in our country.
I love Japan so much. I have never been there and I wanted to visit there so badly.
I saw photo last time on Facebook. It's about a Japanese guy sleeping. It states that Japanese respect those people who sleep during their work time because it is a sure sign that, the man is working so hard.
It's good to hear that you have Filipino friends.
That's usually the scenario here in our country.1 person likes this
@EMbakes (1142)
• Philippines
12 Sep 16
Filipinos are famous, because we are hospitable people. We smile a lot even though we already wanted to punch somebody on the face because they arrived late.
I hope that Filipinos will try to change this habit because it doesn't give a good image in our country.
I know for some, like the Japanese, they really value their time.
And as for the wedding that you happened to attend, I felt bad for the guests. 
I hope that Filipinos will try to change this habit because it doesn't give a good image in our country.
I know for some, like the Japanese, they really value their time. 
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@EMbakes (1142)
• Philippines
12 Sep 16
When people become stoo comfortable with you, at times, they no longer value your sentiments.
They know that you'll later understand that's why they're confident that you're still going to be friends with them after them letting you wait for such a long time. 

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@EMbakes (1142)
• Philippines
14 Sep 16
True. It's something that we can no longer do about it, because it's already the accepted norm in our country. 












