Sometimes when you are too nice
By zweeb82
@zweeb82 (5652)
Malaysia
October 14, 2016 10:16am CST
.....people will take you for a ride, won't they? They will take things for granted, or even worse, some will take advantage of you, right? Just thinking out loud as many times I'm very easygoing and I have learnt to "make things known" to some people so that they don't go overboard or just simply understand the situation or how much effort one has put in. For example, I do computer repairs and in whatever I do I do my best and since I'm one who likes fast service, I expect myself to do the same for others. Although sometimes I charge a bit more but I make sure I get the job done and guarantee I deliver. I just did a recovery job on a pendrive for someone and I told the person that normally data recovery is very expensive, at least minimum twice the price I was charging her so that she was aware. It's just like a housecall, sometimes things can be fixed within minutes even seconds but just because of that, doesn't mean you pay the man less. I'm aware that western countries at least some of the people are more understanding but Asian countries especially....ok maybe I'll just say Malaysia so you guys won't throw your shoes at me
.....some of the people here can sometimes, be utterly cheapskate...got discount ah? Wah, so expensive ah? ( sometimes you just want to tell it to their face - wah, you think my family and I eat grass ah? Live on fresh air and sunshine as the proper English way to put it
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.....some of the people here can sometimes, be utterly cheapskate...got discount ah? Wah, so expensive ah? ( sometimes you just want to tell it to their face - wah, you think my family and I eat grass ah? Live on fresh air and sunshine as the proper English way to put it
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8 responses
@zweeb82 (5652)
• Malaysia
14 Oct 16

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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Oct 16
@zweeb82 I'm surprised you're not allowed to take tips as a waiter/waitress in your country. Here they count on those tips because the typical wage for waiters/waitresses is less than minimum wage.
It's good you were shown such appreciation and I hope it won't go bad for you.
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@allen0187 (59648)
• Philippines
17 Oct 16
Take care of yourself first, that's what I always say to myself. If I won't look after myself, no one else will.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Oct 16
People take advantage in all countries and they all want something for nothing. Just the way the world is, sad truth.
People need to realize it's business-nothing personal. I have been through it many times with providing childcare. People want to pay me practically nothing to watch and care for the most important posessions they have!
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
14 Oct 16
I hate being nice to people when I really shouldn't because you get screwed in the end. Its a trust issue with anyone now.
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@kumbarn14 (735)
• Pakistan
14 Oct 16
People like you and I too think the same way about fellow humans but there is no value, twenty years back it is genuine to help someone, today selfish and killing the beautiful word hospitality.
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How old is he by the way don't mind me asking?


And such audacity
