~My Amusement For The Day~
By Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
Valdosta, Georgia
November 17, 2016 5:28pm CST
I was in my room a lot today since I wasn't feeling great but I still heard the complaints when I did come out!
So I didn't get to post this one because it was late but my husband borrowed his friends truck so he could take her to the store. He got off work around 9ish. He spent a little while with us first then went with her. She said I wish you would have taken me as soon as you got home so I would have more time to shop! 
This morning as my husband was about to leave the house for work she said do you have time to stop and buy donuts? He said no I really don't and she got huffy and puffy about it. 
I was in the bathroom at one point and she says the baby is crying. Ok, what would you like me to do right this minute? Really?
She was told when she got here we don't eat spicy food. She makes jumbilyah for dinner and then gets annoyed no one ate it!
Okay I'm done...that was fun and I feel better! Lol.
This morning as my husband was about to leave the house for work she said do you have time to stop and buy donuts? He said no I really don't and she got huffy and puffy about it.
I was in the bathroom at one point and she says the baby is crying. Ok, what would you like me to do right this minute? Really?
She was told when she got here we don't eat spicy food. She makes jumbilyah for dinner and then gets annoyed no one ate it!
Okay I'm done...that was fun and I feel better! Lol.14 people like this
16 responses
@Mike197602 (15504)
• United Kingdom
17 Nov 16
I don't get it.
If I remember rightly (could be utterly mixed up and wrong here) aunt mary took in your husband when he was younger and that's a big reason for you helping her?
If that's right was she not like this back then or did your husband just not notice?
If she was nice back then what's made her turn a bit bitter?
Obviously if I'm wrong about her taking your husband in just ignore my response
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@Mike197602 (15504)
• United Kingdom
17 Nov 16
@yukimori maybe but if I'm right in what I think he'd have been a lot younger so wouldn't necessarily cater to her needs as such.
Maybe not challenge her authority is the thing???
Who knows, but some people will try the patience of a saint and I'm not even religious
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Nov 16
@Mike1976 You do have it right and it is different now because she went through a bitter divorce and she has some health problems that she hates the world for.
She is never happy or satisfied anymore.
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@yukimori (10193)
• United States
17 Nov 16
I still say she needs to be shown the door. Those first two are her trying to get your husband to recognize her as the #1 woman in his life right now. The third, she's implying that you're inadequate as a mother because you *gasp* occasionally have physical needs that you deal with when your baby wants something.
The fact that you're moving is literally a godsend because it gives you a way to get her out of your home without the hassle of having to legally evict her. Seriously, you need her out of there. If she's there when you give birth, she's going to absolutely trash your postpartum period. You know how vulnerable that time can be. Don't give her that opportunity. I mean, really... is there a single positive thing she's bringing to your lives right now? The ability to share her BS here doesn't count, by the way...
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Nov 16
@yukimori I always feel like she's putting me down for my parenting skills or my wifely duties... The two things I personally think I do well! I try not to let those things get to me because I know I'm a good wife and mom no matter what she thinks or says.
When she finds out she's sleeping in the garage there's no way she's going to stay. She already complains about the room she is in being too cold every day.
I'm going to make it VERY clear to my husband that she cannot be there after I have Josiah (if she even chooses to stay in the garage at all). I cannot handle her around through that time, no way! I will put my foot down on that one.
No, there's nothing good coming from this at all...except for her having a roof over her head. Nothing good for our family, no.
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@Morleyhunt (21741)
• Canada
18 Nov 16
I'm not sure our advice is welcome anymore. I totally agree, she needs to get this poison out of her house.
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@Mike197602 (15504)
• United Kingdom
18 Nov 16
no way she'd throw her out
she's not that kind of person....especially at this time of year for you in the US.
she's not that kind of person....especially at this time of year for you in the US.1 person likes this
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Nov 16
@akalinus Yes I made them try a little bit of it last time she made it and they didn't like it. I'm not forcing them to eat something spicy though when I know they hate it...
I think she might be...
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@akalinus (44366)
• United States
18 Nov 16
@LovingMyBabies When you get her the donuts, can you get me some too? 
@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
17 Nov 16
Sounds like another fun day at your house..
She has to be doing this things on purpose. She is ridiculous.
She has to be doing this things on purpose. She is ridiculous.1 person likes this
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Nov 16
@Happy2beme It's either that or she's been bitter and ungrateful for so long that it just comes naturally now... Sad either way.
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
18 Nov 16
@LovingMyBabies that could very well be it. It is sad to be so miserable all the time.
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@Tina30219 (82978)
• Onaway, Michigan
18 Nov 16
@LovingMyBabies Yes it sure is sad either way you are definitely right. She should be greatful you are letting her stay with you.
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@Tina30219 (82978)
• Onaway, Michigan
18 Nov 16
Wow what part does not understand your man works to support you and your kids and she should understand your family does not like spicy food she should have asked before she made it. The closer moving is getting I am sure you are hoping she don't come. Glad you feel better now thag you got that out.
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Nov 16
@jstory07 Yeah you would think she would have but nope. Not a help except that she likes to clean, which I honestly don't care much about. I would rather my kids be happy.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Nov 16
@judyev Yup! And I didn't even see her a whole lot. Lol
And I didn't even see her a whole lot. Lol1 person likes this
@fishtiger58 (29819)
• Momence, Illinois
18 Nov 16
How long has she been with you guys. And the most important question when is she leaving.
@Fishmomma (11658)
• United States
18 Nov 16
I would have a hard time living in your house. I'm now understanding just how hard it really is now.
