Texting First After A Date

Well what would you feel if a girl texted you first after a date? Would you lose interest?

@JohnRoberts So you don't think you'd find her boring and lose interest because she comes too easy?

@flapiz It always depends if you like the other person. If I liked a girl and wanted to see her again, I would be thrilled if she texted/called back with the same interest. Whole lot easier for a guy!

Hi Judy! Despite what my friends were saying I did text him. Yes he paid for the meal and I think it's. It very grateful of me not to tell him I had a great time.

@flapiz I'm glad you did. I think it is only polite really to follow up any kindesses with a 'thank you' whether by text or phone call or whatever. Lately we've found many young people never say thank you or even acknowledge that they have received a gift. I'm sure you haven't done yourself any harm by texting.

@flapiz At least , he acknowledged your text .

@SIMPLYD Oh well yes. He's not a jerk. I'm still hopeful that he'd text me but if not I'll be alright. It's just one date

I think I blew it. He didn't text me today he was very polite with my text though which is at least nice of him. Well better luck next time.

Heyya! Yes I've been absent for a while. Adult life is getting the best of me. I did text him and he replied with a I enjoyed meeting you sort of message. But somehow it felt generic imfor me.

@hereandthere that's exactly what my friend told me. I think that's very sensible though. Won't text him anymore unless he texts me first.

@flapiz well, the ball is in his court now, so que sera sera, whatever will be, will be.

Hi Manisha I broke that rule and I'm so embarrassed. Although he replied me I think he was just being polite.

oh...so no 2nd date set ?

@ms1864 Nope there's none. And I'm wondering where it went wrong because it was a really good date.

I texted him and he said it was nice meeting me too. But it felt like he was just being polite or I'm just overthinking.

@Magicweaver1 I'm just going to wait for him to ask me out again. The ball is on his court now. It's up to him what he does with it.

@flapiz That's what you have created as a story in your mind.He has not mentioned that has he....just go with the flow dear....it could be that even he is a little shy sharing the feel.... Just go with the flow and believe what he says in rather than what you think it should be.... I believe relations and love are based on heart and not what we think in our mind....Just know this guy better as you have just met him.... :) Keep sharing and shining.... Happiness Always...

Nope this one's the epic fail date with a Belgian guy lol. The French man is the complete opposite of this one. But this one left me hung up.

I know it is much wiser to wait but my impatience had gotten the best of me. It was a really good date.