~Yesterday Was A No Nonsense Day~
By Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
Valdosta, Georgia
December 14, 2016 3:37pm CST
I don't know what got into me yesterday but...I WAS NOT PLAYING. Lol. I had no sleep the night before because the girl's mom I babysit for showed up 6 hours later than she was supposed to for pick up. I told her I thought it was very disrespectful not to at least call and let me know she would be so much later. It actually felt good to defend myself for once and she apologized. 
Aunt Mary got told off FOUR times yesterday by me. The first thing she said when I woke up was those kids were up all night playing. (I know they were NOT because I was up all night long!) I said no they weren't, I was up all night so I know they were not. She said oh I didn't say they were I was just asking if they were. 
Uh-huh because she got caught in a lie she changed her story real quick.
The second thing was she wanted my daughter to use bleach and clean the bathroom. As I have told her before my KIDS are not using chemicals-it's an adult's job to clean the bathroom and I would be happy to do it if she didn't want to. 
Then she gets in the shower without asking anyone else if we had to use the bathroom first-we only have ONE and I'm pregnant so I constantly have to go! And my kids have little bladders too. 
I told her next time she needs to ask everyone if they have to use the bathroom first.
Then she complained because my husband didn't take her to the store earlier than 9pm because he was working all day and wanted to spend an hour with his family. I told her you should be grateful he's willing to take you at all and he has a right to see his family for an hour!
I don't know why but glad I defended myself yesterday-I needed to!
Picture is of my sister and I. I'm the one with darker hair if you didn't know.
Aunt Mary got told off FOUR times yesterday by me. The first thing she said when I woke up was those kids were up all night playing. (I know they were NOT because I was up all night long!) I said no they weren't, I was up all night so I know they were not. She said oh I didn't say they were I was just asking if they were. Uh-huh because she got caught in a lie she changed her story real quick.
The second thing was she wanted my daughter to use bleach and clean the bathroom. As I have told her before my KIDS are not using chemicals-it's an adult's job to clean the bathroom and I would be happy to do it if she didn't want to.
Then she gets in the shower without asking anyone else if we had to use the bathroom first-we only have ONE and I'm pregnant so I constantly have to go! And my kids have little bladders too. I told her next time she needs to ask everyone if they have to use the bathroom first.
Then she complained because my husband didn't take her to the store earlier than 9pm because he was working all day and wanted to spend an hour with his family. I told her you should be grateful he's willing to take you at all and he has a right to see his family for an hour!
I don't know why but glad I defended myself yesterday-I needed to!
Picture is of my sister and I. I'm the one with darker hair if you didn't know.24 people like this
23 responses
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Dec 16
@Jabouk Yes she does, and it won't be too much longer before that happens. Thank you. =)
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 16
@DianneN Thanks, it takes a lot for me to do it and yesterday I just had enough with everything.
Thank you! =)
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@Tina30219 (82978)
• Onaway, Michigan
15 Dec 16
You did a great job in defending yourself. I am proud of you for giving aunt Mary a piece of your mind she deserves it. Sorry I don't mean to be mean but she needs to grow up.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Dec 16
@Tina30219 No I agree with you. She needed me to say something because I never really have before.
@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
14 Dec 16
Good to hear you are defending yourself =) It's working well!
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@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
15 Dec 16
@LovingMyBabies Not good to hold your anger :)
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Dec 16
@infatuatedbby Yeah I just had to yesterday, couldn't hold it in anymore.
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@quantum2020 (12054)
• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico
14 Dec 16
You definately have to deal with many things at home. That is good and is twice as good that you can handle all of those everyday life situations.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 16
@quantum2020 I do deal with a lot each day. I try the best I can to keep my cool and keep things together.
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@akalinus (44366)
• United States
14 Dec 16
It sounds like you have had it up to here. Is Aunt Mary going to the new house with you? I think maybe she should be living somewhere else. You are pregnant and have a houseful of kids. How much longer can you endure her nonsense?
BTW, I love the picture of you and your sister!
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 16
@akalinus Yeah yesterday I hit my boiling point and had no sleep so I just wasn't having any nonsense. She's going but not for long. My husband said once we are over there and he gets a bigger job he will give her the money to go to Louisiana.
Aw, thank you! =)
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@akalinus (44366)
• United States
14 Dec 16
@LovingMyBabies You need to take care of yourself because your family needs you.
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@snowy22315 (208774)
• United States
15 Dec 16
nice pic except for your demon red eyes lol
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
17 Dec 16
@snowy22315 Thanks, I know that is creepy. Lol
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@celticeagle (189819)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Dec 16
I find that when I am tired I am ultra sensitive and things really get on my nerves more than they usually would.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
17 Dec 16
@celticeagle Yeah I am the same way but things with her have been building up for months now.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 16
@Juliaacv Everyone says that and her and I just don't see it at all. Lol.
I did and I needed to because people walk all over me quite a bit. I feel much better today. =)
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
17 Dec 16
@LadyDuck Thanks. I just keep hoping it won't be much longer.
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@moffittjc (128831)
• Gainesville, Florida
17 Dec 16
Way to stand up for yourself Jennifer! It sounds like she was being a little passive aggressive to you, and you responded assertively! Don't feel bad about it, as it is very important for you to take charge over the situation!
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
17 Dec 16
@moffittjc Thank you. There is only so much I can take... I have put up with a lot before hitting my breaking point.
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@moffittjc (128831)
• Gainesville, Florida
17 Dec 16
@LovingMyBabies I am very similar in that regards. It takes a lot to get my blood boiling, but watch out if you do! lol
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 16
@KristenH Thank you! It was a long time coming! I had enough and I had to say something yesterday.
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@KristenH (33591)
• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio
15 Dec 16
@LovingMyBabies My pleasure. Give her coal for Christmas. 
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@fishtiger58 (29819)
• Momence, Illinois
15 Dec 16
Man she's still there yikes. I think it's good you stood up for yourself, it's your home after all not Aunt Mary's
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
17 Dec 16
@fishtiger58 Yes she is. It felt good to finally say something.
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@AliCanary (4387)
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14 Dec 16
Good for you for standing up for yourself and your family! I have a blonde sister, too :)
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 16
@AliCanary Thank you, it had to be done since I am usually walked all over. I'm naturally a dirty blond myself but I dye my hair.
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@pumpkinjam (8876)
• United Kingdom
3 Jan 17
Good for you. People taking advantage should be told. That woman was very disrespectful to turn up so late without so much as a call.
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Dec 16
@jstory07 Yeah I wish she was different. =(
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
17 Dec 16
@JudyEv Yeah I know, that thought went through my head as well which really annoyed me more. She was very disrespectful of my time.
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