BLOWN AWAY.

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@Kandae11 (57233)
February 3, 2017 6:19pm CST
Continuing the focus on love and relationships: What if you were given the choice of having a steady , unexciting kind of relationship which lasts, or one that is thrilling, blissful and simply blows you away - but unfortunately doesn't last for more than a year? Your choice of course would depend on how you plan to live your life and exactly what you are looking for in a relationship. Which one will it be?
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josefina
@josie_ (10033)
• Philippines
4 Feb 17
A difficult choice. I would say it depends on one's age. In my youth I would not have hesitated in choosing the one that is exciting and thrilling. But now that I'm in my sunset years, I am more comfortable with my unexciting and dependable relationship...which is blissful.
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Kandase
@Kandae11 (57233)
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4 Feb 17
Oh yes indeed, age would definitely be a factor. From your profile pic you don't look like someone in her sunset years.
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josefina
@josie_ (10033)
• Philippines
4 Feb 17
@Kandae11 _ That's my 2nd youngest grandson Zac in my profile who will be six this year. I have 10 grandchildren.
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Kandase
@Kandae11 (57233)
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4 Feb 17
@josie_ Wow!
DianneN
@DianneN (254949)
• United States
4 Feb 17
I can't answer this. I would chose neither. I have married the love of my life, and our marriage is still going strong after many, many years. It is steady, but blissful, thrilling, and still blows my mind away. I am very blessed.
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DianneN
@DianneN (254949)
• United States
4 Feb 17
@Kandae11 Thank you!
Kandase
@Kandae11 (57233)
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4 Feb 17
Wonderful!
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ShannyBananny
@shaggin (74988)
• United States
4 Feb 17
I would take the unexciting long lasting relationship for sure! I want love to last not to be swept away and then be left mourning.
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Kandase
@Kandae11 (57233)
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4 Feb 17
I think I would do that as well, and try my best to make the long lasting one exciting.
Juliaacv
@Juliaacv (56218)
• Canada
4 Feb 17
I don't think that I could be part of a relationship that is unexciting, I like thrills and fun too much!
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Kandase
@Kandae11 (57233)
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4 Feb 17
And life is short.
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ingrid
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
4 Feb 17
you have to be with the one you love. relationships matter most especially when there is honesty and trust between the 2 of you.
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Kandase
@Kandae11 (57233)
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4 Feb 17
Well said.
Ayuriny
@Ayuriny (5144)
• Denpasar, Indonesia
4 Feb 17
This is a tough question, but if I had to choose between the two, I would take the second choice. I would spend our time together like having a one year honeymoon. .
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Kandase
@Kandae11 (57233)
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4 Feb 17
You would also have to make a plan about how you will get on with your life after it ends.
Judy Story
@jstory07 (148720)
• Roseburg, Oregon
4 Feb 17
I would take the relationship that would last for a very long time.