Is it rude to visit someone without first telling them?

When I was growing up it wasn't possible to ring before visiting someone because very few had phones. But times have changed a great deal and most people appreciate a phone call before paying a visit.

I definitely prefer to know somebody is coming. I don't like unexpected guests. I like to prepare for them. I would never show up at anybodys house unexpectedly and I expect the same.I, Ean of course if somebody showed up in would welcome them though.

Well I guess who it is. If it is a close family member or a friend, like a family member then I would not mind them dropping by unanounced.

I definitely agree with you, but I know a lot of people will say, their family is welcome anytime they should show up at the door. Part of me agrees with that but the other part of me wants to make sure that everything is perfect. I really shouldn't care... I'm sure that my family doesn't! :)

And even if you are forewarned, I think turning up too early is at least as bad as being really late.

Well yes same here. But if the person is my sibling or her kids or spouse, then it's okay.

I'd just like to have visitors! I think most people know that they'll always be welcome but I'm hardly ever at home so calling ahead is a good idea. I think it's rude if you turn up unannounced and expect the person to drop everything for you but if you happen to be passing or nearby and pop in on the off-chance, I'd think it nice that someone thought of me as long as they take me and my home as they find us and accept if it's not a good time.

I like to be forewarbed so I m prepared for v istors myself

I think it is rude . You should at least call them and tell them you are on your way to see them.

I would prefer being notified but it's not necessary.