"When she got her throat slit, it turned me on."
@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
Perth, Australia
March 20, 2017 4:32pm CST
I was talking to my dad the other day about some things in regards to one of my ex boyfriends. ( Aidan ) My dad really hates him. As do I. Sometimes I just need to vent things out when I remember something about the times I was around him.
As much as it hurts or angers my dad to hear what went on, he still listens which is good.
I told him how Aidan and I were watching a movie and I'm pretty sure it was Scream. Long story short a woman on the movie got her throat slit.
Sometime after the movie ended, Aidan said "When she got her throat slit, it turned me on."
I just remember sitting there being quiet in disbelief. I still don't know to this day if he actually meant it or it was just another scare tactic to make me stressed out.
Either way........I'm having trouble getting this memory out of my head.
Has anyone ever told you something f***ed up like this?
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@moffittjc (128830)
• Gainesville, Florida
21 Mar 17
I dated a girl a long time ago that told me she was into dark things. Dark as in like evil. I didn't stick around too long after that. She might have been one of those people that got turned on by watching people get their throats sliced open. I wasn't about to find out. I certainly don't need that kind of weirdness in my life. But I'm sure there are many people out in this crazy messed up world who do enjoy things like that.
It really pisses me off that your ex-bf was like that to you.
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@moffittjc (128830)
• Gainesville, Florida
14 Feb 19
@VivaLaDani13 I prefer to be with more positive, uplifting people.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
11 Feb 19
@moffittjc I know for sure that there are people out there who enjoy those sorts of things. It's very evil and creepy. I'm glad you didn't stick around with that girl!
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
11 Feb 19
@rebelann I am glad you've never encountered anyone who said something so screwed up as what my ex said. And I hope you never do!
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@louievill (28846)
• Philippines
20 Mar 17
There 's just something not right with people gettin turned on with throats getting slit. I remember what I saw about serial killers, they weren't born one but something that progressed being turned on by blood to torturing animals. Hope that was just a scare tactic and incase you don't ran on to him again or cross paths
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@louievill (28846)
• Philippines
20 Mar 17
@VivaLaDani13 are you far from him now or does he just live in your community? Hope he is gone from your life for good
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
20 Mar 17
@louievill He lives in another suburb. About a 15-20 minute drive from my house.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
20 Mar 17
@louievill I'm hoping it was a scare tactic too because it's making me wonder if all this time he got some kind of satisfaction from hurting me. I mean I know he did it to scare me and it was like some sort of power trip but what if he enjoyed it a little bit...too much? I don't know. And makes me wonder if he could have hurt me in that way too. He used to scare me with knives but now I'm wondering if he would have ever actually cut me.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
20 Mar 17
@pgntwo lol Minions are cute! I like watching any type of movie really. But yeah, I don't think I want to see that particular movie again until I'm over this memory.
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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
20 Mar 17
No one has ever told me something like that. Only person I have known about is this "thing" you call your Ex. 
I hope we never cross paths.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
20 Mar 17
@Daljinder lol thing. Yeah he is....something else....
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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
20 Mar 17
@VivaLaDani13 That "thing" does not deserve to be called a human.
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
20 Mar 17
I would think it was just a scare tactic because abusers are like that. They like to keep you on edge because they have control over you. I heard so many terrible things that haunt me. It is something that stays with you no matter how many year pass. I try not to think too much about those days but sometimes something happens and it takes me back there.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
20 Mar 17
@Happy2BeMe I'm sorry you have days where you remember certain things and I really agree with you. It's been well over 5 years since I last saw him. I was with him for 6 years. So there's a lot of things he did throughout that time that still haunts me too.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
20 Mar 17
@Happy2BeMe That's what I wonder sometimes. Wondering if he has another victim. 
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
20 Mar 17
@VivaLaDani13 it is good that you were finally able to get free of him. It takes a long time to heal from something like that. I am sure he is doing the same to another woman now.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
20 Mar 17
@Hatley I hope you never have to. It's not an easy thing to deal with.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
11 Feb 19
@jaboUK Technically I wouldn't have called it a real relationship. I stayed out of fear. I didn't love him. He threatened to kill me and my family if I ever told anybody about the way he was treating me or if I tried to leave so it was hard to decide how to escape from him.
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@RichardMeister (5328)
• Otis Orchards, Washington
22 Mar 17
I have never heard anyone say anything like that. That is pretty f-ed up. It's a good thing you got away from that jerk.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
23 Mar 17
@RichardMeister I agree. It really is f***ed up! And I'm very glad I'm away from him too. He really was dragging me down in many ways.
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