You're making me uncomfortable!

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In Irish, when you say hello to someone, you are literally saying "God be with you." The most common response, again in the Irish language, is "God and Mary be with you." (or is it Mary and Joseph? I can't remember). "Dia Dhuit" is "God be with you." or "hello" in Irish. In the English Language, it is common to say "Bless you" after someone sneezes. Though, I've always said "Gesundheit" instead (it's German) because that's just what I picked up from family. I think even "Salu" in spanish is "bless you" but don't quote me on that because I don't rightly remember. Those things, are just a part of life, so they don't make me uncomfortable. However, and I think atleast some of you can agree with me here, other similar instances DO make me cringe. Say you are talking to someone (online or off) and they say "Oh bless you." or "I'll pray for you." or "You're in my thoughts and prayers." It's just what they were taught, or perhaps they are religious and it's their nature to do these things. I don't begrudge anyone their beliefs.. However, it makes me uncomfortable when people say things like that because I don't know what to say back... I am not religious. I don't mind if people pray for me, if that's what they want to do. I feel even more uncomfortable when someone says things like "Just leave it to God." Again, I know it's their religion but I feel as if they are pushing that on to me. Now, I know, in most cases, thats not what they are doing. I just feel like we are such a vast and diverse group, with so many of us not practicing any religion at all... I just feel as if it's time we fall away from saying these types of things to one another. Atleast in situations where we don't know that person very well. We don't know how we might be making another person uncomfortable. With all of this being said, I am a bit of a hypocrite. I will, sometimes say, "God will handle it." I'm not trying to be sacrilege here. I try to say those things to people I know will appreciate it. For the most part, I'll say something very.. vague like "It is how it is." Nothing that is affiliated or influenced by a religious practice or belief... but something that might be of comfort to the person I am talking with. Does that make sense? In any case, I wanted to bring this up... Do you feel uncomfortable when someone says "God Bless You" or "I'll pray for you." Or encourges you to "Let Go and Let God." ?