You’re It!
@RichardMeister (5328)
Otis Orchards, Washington
April 23, 2017 2:12pm CST
A good many of us, at least in the United States, remember playing “tag” when we were in elementary school. It’s a game we played with a group of children by picking someone to be “it.” Then everyone would run away from the child who was “it.” “It” would chase after the children until he or she touched (tagged) another child and yell, “You’re it!” Then that child would do the same. Each child that was tagged would do the same until recess was over or everyone got tired of playing.
I’m not trying to teach anyone how to play tag. I’m just trying to bring people’s memories back to the game. It’s a game I haven’t thought of in years–until I read something about the game.
I can remember laughing as we ran from “it.” And I can remember being “it” and chasing other children until I tagged someone and they became “it.” A harmless little game we played to have fun during recesses.
But now a school in California has deemed this fun, harmless game as too rough for children. They have banned it from school grounds. The first time children get caught playing it they will be warned. The second time they will receive a referral. The third time there will be a parent-teacher conference. (Even the punishment was harsher when I was in school. We would have to bend over and grab our ankles while the teacher would take a paddle with little holes drilled in it to stop the wind from creating a cushion of air between the paddle and our butts. The holes probably did more to scare the children than to keep from creating a cushion.)
I can remember playing much rougher games in elementary school. One was where we lined up in two lines facing each other about ten feet apart with the same number of children in both lines. We would hold hands creating a “chain.” Then someone would yell, “Red rover, red rover, send (child’s name) over.” That child would run as fast and hard as he or she could. The idea was for that child to break the chain by running into where two children grasped hands. If the chain was broken the running child would join the chain that was broken. If the child did not break the chain he or she would return to their chain. The winning side would be the side with the least children at the end of the game. I can even remember teachers supervising this game. I’m sure this game was banned a long time ago.
Then there was dodge ball which I’m sure has been banned in every school in America. A game where children would throw a soft ball at other children. The idea was to dodge the ball. If a child got hit he or she would be out of the game.
I can remember playing marbles. We would draw a circle on the ground and each player would put the same amount of marbles in the circle. Then each child would shoot a marble off their forefinger with their thumb from outside the circle. If their marble knocked another marble out of the circle it became the shooter’s marble. I suppose this game has been banned, too, because someone could loose all their marbles.
Maybe the administration of this school lost too many games of marbles.
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@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
23 Apr 17
This is so disheartening to say the least to hear Richard.
It saddens me that these schools are now more like literal prisons for kids..
I truly think that some people have gone totally mad.
What nonsense to be restricting childrens fun in childhood.
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@RichardMeister (5328)
• Otis Orchards, Washington
23 Apr 17
It does seem to be the direction schools are going these days.
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@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
23 Apr 17
@RichardMeister Yes it does and everything else with it. So crazy thinking.
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@RichardMeister (5328)
• Otis Orchards, Washington
23 Apr 17
@TiarasOceanView Sometimes I wonder if these bans are because the schools are afraid they will be sued if someone's delicate child gets their feelings hurt.
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
24 Apr 17
Yep, it's all about safety, they say. People have gotten sue happy over every little thing - and the last thing any school district needs is another lawsuit. With budget cuts, there are less people supervising the kids outside . . . so that means for the ones that are supervising, they have a heap of kids to watch over - a heap they don't always have control over. As it is, it seems schools have to watch how they discipline the kids (I think this contributes to bullying issues in school), so they put these rules in and cut out the rough games to keep all the kids in line.
Yah, but kids are going to be kids, and they will make new games
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I have even heard in our school that kids aren't allowed to run . . . not allowed to run, even in the playground, are they nuts??? I think the interim principal a couple years ago put in and enforced that rule, but the newer principal (whom we love) is more more lenient about stuff like that.
I know kids still play tag and dodge ball at our school. Oh, but I forgot about Red Rover . . . I haven't heard that one in years! And marbles would be a no-no, especially since they are made of glass (kids can't bring glass (containers) to school).
I think there are learning opportunities for kids to play these games (well, it could be rough, but I think it teaches most kids to be less rough actually because they learn to problem solve through these games). And these games teach kids to include each other - the more the merrier. I see less of that these days.
When you talk about kids and schools - I can go on and on
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I have even heard in our school that kids aren't allowed to run . . . not allowed to run, even in the playground, are they nuts??? I think the interim principal a couple years ago put in and enforced that rule, but the newer principal (whom we love) is more more lenient about stuff like that.
I know kids still play tag and dodge ball at our school. Oh, but I forgot about Red Rover . . . I haven't heard that one in years! And marbles would be a no-no, especially since they are made of glass (kids can't bring glass (containers) to school).
I think there are learning opportunities for kids to play these games (well, it could be rough, but I think it teaches most kids to be less rough actually because they learn to problem solve through these games). And these games teach kids to include each other - the more the merrier. I see less of that these days.
When you talk about kids and schools - I can go on and on
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@RichardMeister (5328)
• Otis Orchards, Washington
24 Apr 17
I'm sure you can go on and on about kids and schools. The phrase "olly olly oxen free" kept popping into my mind and I kept trying to say we yelled, "Olly olly oxen free, send so-and-so over." But I knew that wasn't right because "over" rhymed with something. Then it hit me that it was, Red rover, red rover, send so-and-so over." But then I kept wondering what game it was we yelled, "Olly olly oxen free." That phrase kept popping up in my head like a tune you can't get out of your head. Then it hit me after that thing ran through my head all day. It was what we used to yell after we finished counting when playing hide and seek. We would yell, "Olly olly oxen free. Ready or not here I come!" I suppose hide and seek has also been banned.
When I was in elementary school there wasn't that many students in the entire school. Two or three teachers could rule over the playground. By the time I was a senior in high school we had the biggest class to ever graduate from that high school. There was 72 students in the class. There were 2 elementary schools in the district so that gives you some idea how many students there were in my elementary school. I'm guessing no more than 200 students in my entire elementary school.
I was just thinking about the initiation the Future Farmers of America (FFA) went through when I was in high school. I didn't join but one of the foster boys I lived with did. He said they blindfolded him then made him reach into what felt like a toilet and squeeze what felt like a turd. He said he thought it was a banana he squeezed. The second year he got to see exactly what they did but he wouldn't say a word of what all went on. One year there was a kid that they blindfolded and told him to start running. He was in the football field. They claimed they told him to turn right and he turned left and ran smack dab into one of the light poles. It knock him out cold. There were whispers that they actually told him to turn left because they thought it would be funny to see him smack into the pole. After that the school banned the FFA from making kids run blindfolded. I'm sure the school banned all initiations by now.
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
26 Apr 17
@RichardMeister When my kids were playing with the other neighborhood kids, the hider would try to remain unseen . . . and the hider would try to run back to "base" without the counter tagging them and if the hider got to the tree or wherever successfully without being tagged, they would be "safe". I think that's how it went . . . my memory is kinda fuzzy about how we played it when I was a kid. We didn't play it at school, there was hardly anywhere to hide!
Our school district covers all of L.A., but there are different zones I guess. Not sure how many schools exactly are in our "zone", but I think all the schools in the district (middle school and high school included) it's over 1100 schools. I think it's too big of a district - and too political.
I was on the yearbook staff all throughout high school. To be honest, I didn't know about FFA until we did all the club/group pages towards the end of the year - that's how I learned it actually existed at our school. I also remember not knowing anyone who was in it - and I recall there weren't that many in it either. I quickly looked up our neighboring schools - FFA seems to be around still - and that surprises me. I heard farming is not a popular choice in careers - especially around here although there are a few farms. My dad actually left the farm life in Japan and moved out here . . . he did not see a future in farming where he lived . . . and he was right.
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@RichardMeister (5328)
• Otis Orchards, Washington
25 Apr 17
@much2say Hmmm.... I had to do some heavy thinking about how we played hide and seek. I don't remember having to tag the hiders but the more I think about it the hiders did touch the tree or whatever was used for the counter to lean on as he or she hid their eyes. And now I think that was when someone would yell, "olly olly oxen free." I think the trouble I'm having with remembering how this game was played maybe because it was played differently at home than at school. I think at home all we had to do is find someone hiding. The more I think about it once we did find someone hide then we ran back and tag "base" to beat the hiding person. I can't remember who became the counter, though.
The school district I went to only had a total of 4 schools–2 elementary, a junior high and a high school. I think the district still has just 4 schools–1 elementary, 1 middle school, 1 high school and 1 alternative school.
I didn't think you'd even know what the FFA was. I figured in California where you live no one would even know what Future Farmer of America was.
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
23 Apr 17
I have heard of this banning. I played all those games as a child and they were great! There were very, very few overweight children in my elementary/middle schools in the 50s and 60s. We played hard at recess and wore ourselves out so we were ready to come back inside and learn.
No wonder there are so many diagnosis of ADD and ADHD--they won't allow anyone to expend any energy!!
What happened to our nationwide love of taking risk for big gain? Remember the moon program? They could not do that today because the astronauts would not be as safe as they should. If it was up to this generation we never would have made it to the moon. Next they will ban hopscotch because a child might lose their balance and skin their knee.
This is getting beyond ridiculous. My granddaughter is going to private or charter school where kids can be kids.
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@RichardMeister (5328)
• Otis Orchards, Washington
23 Apr 17
You may very well be right.
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@Freelanzer (10782)
• Canada
25 Apr 17
Sounds like an extreme action to take but I didn't know children still played that game. I imagine the school children today playing on their phones during recess
@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
23 Apr 17
Those were good times and we are all still alive to talk about them. Sad that these games are now considered to dangerous to play.
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@RichardMeister (5328)
• Otis Orchards, Washington
23 Apr 17
Yes, I didn't die from play any of this so-called dangerous games.
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