He reveals.
By ingrid
@ridingbet (66854)
Philippines
April 24, 2017 12:54am CST
A male colleague of mine is sharing some posts on face book about broken- heartedness, letting go, and moving on. I am so vigilant about these things so I asked him a question if his love life is going strong, considering that his girlfriend is now in a foreign land.
Yesterday it all started. First was an arm with the tattoo of a wolf. I asked but he just liked my comment with a thumb up icon. Then, he shared many posts of letting go; having drinks (beer) at home, alone; healing a broken heart; and traveling to some tourist places, alone.
I message him on chat, but he just laughed it off.
I told him I am a hundred percent sure that he and she are having problems. I also told him that I noticed she does not ‘like or love’ any of his posts any longer. I believe he is embarrassed to tell me, but the posts on FB reveal his true emotions.
But I cannot console him because he does not need anybody’s advice as of yet. I hope he will listen to us who care for him.
Can you read between the lines of the posts of your friend?
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@antonbunot (11146)
• Calgary, Alberta
24 Apr 17
@ridingbet . . I do! In fact, I can also tell if a man is straight or leaning to one side . .
. . 7 years ago, my wife had a lady co-worker who went back to the Philippines to marry the brother of her friend and co-worker. My wife and I were invited to watch the video of their wedding when their co-worker was back (Her husband was left behind coz his immigration papers were still being processed). On our way back home my wife asked me what did I think of the groom . . I told her that the guy is GAY! My wife was surprised and asked me how did I know . . . I told her by the way he walked, moved, and facial expressions. When the guy finally was here, we were again invited to attend a welcome party. On our way back home, I told my wife that the man is "tsupaeng"
. . . He likes a woman . . but he likes man much, much more. I was right . . after a couple of months he left his wife for a man of his life. They divorced . . and the man is currently living with his male partner. . . Recenlty I saw him and his male sweetheart in the mall . . she is Pacifica Falaypay now! Kumekembot ang puwet! 

. . 7 years ago, my wife had a lady co-worker who went back to the Philippines to marry the brother of her friend and co-worker. My wife and I were invited to watch the video of their wedding when their co-worker was back (Her husband was left behind coz his immigration papers were still being processed). On our way back home my wife asked me what did I think of the groom . . I told her that the guy is GAY! My wife was surprised and asked me how did I know . . . I told her by the way he walked, moved, and facial expressions. When the guy finally was here, we were again invited to attend a welcome party. On our way back home, I told my wife that the man is "tsupaeng"
. . . He likes a woman . . but he likes man much, much more. I was right . . after a couple of months he left his wife for a man of his life. They divorced . . and the man is currently living with his male partner. . . Recenlty I saw him and his male sweetheart in the mall . . she is Pacifica Falaypay now! Kumekembot ang puwet! 

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@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
25 Apr 17
@antonbunot i had a feeling it was arranged, but i guess all parties were aware and agreeable to this setup.
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@antonbunot (11146)
• Calgary, Alberta
24 Apr 17
@hereandthere The co-worker is a woman not man. I suspected that the sister (coworker of my wife and the bride) knew that her brother is gay. It is what we call marriage for convenience - - so that he could come to Canada legally.
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@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
28 Apr 17
You did a very good analysis of your friends activities on FB. I might have done the same if I know the person closely.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
29 Apr 17
thanks. but i am not very active in commenting on their posts, only when a post is vague or questionable.
Scorpio people are natural detectives, and being a detective is innate in me. i am not prying into their lives, but when a quote ends in a question mark, it would mean that the user needs some pieces of advice from his friends and followers.
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
30 Apr 17
@dpk262006 thank you. do you do that too? giving some pieces of advice to a friend who wants to be advised but he is concealing his want and need for advice?

@jobelbojel (36791)
• Philippines
30 Apr 17
I am suspecting that they have some arguments. If they will continue ignoring each other, they will eventually lose the sense of communication. Hope they reconcile or talk
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@jobelbojel (36791)
• Philippines
30 Apr 17
@ridingbet It seems that your colleague wants to travel the country and wants to find himself
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
1 May 17
@jobelbojel yes, ading. he is traveling alone. a asked him this morning if you takes his pictures when he is alone. a female colleague butted in and said, "maybe the bystanders are asked a favor to take shots of him, Ma'am?"
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
30 Apr 17
the latest is the girl is once again communicating on FB but my colleague went to other places, alone, and having a tour with himself. i don't know if they have talked now.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
24 Apr 17
they say that Face Book is a medium of sharing one's thoughts, emotions, and issues. i believe so, but then, Face Book is not a site to gain sympathies as well. we can have our problems kept in our private lives and not reveal to the whole world, because sometimes, people can be bad, netizens can be bullies..
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@LadyDuck (502190)
• Italy
24 Apr 17
@ridingbet I share nothing on FB, what is private must be kept private.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
24 Apr 17
@LadyDuck right. I share posts in my wall,pictures of my family and dogs, but not about my personal problems.
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@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
24 Apr 17
Posts on facebook always come from the heart. But not all of them for sure because it depends on the person who posted it.
Maybe that friend of yours is really passing on a rough road today. He is just ashamed to admit it. Or maybe it hurts him so much. Posting his feelings on facebook could help him unleash the burdens.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
24 Apr 17
he calls me MUDRA, so he thinks of me as a mother to him. even though he denies it, i know he is going through rough road re his relationship with his girl.
and oh! i do share some posts on FB but that does not mean i am going through these emotions.

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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
25 Apr 17
@magallon yes that is good. but have you read the latest posts about the quarrels of partners, to the extent of saying bad words to each other? they are making their private lives public and scandalous as well
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@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
25 Apr 17
@ridingbet Most of the time I can read posts that tells what the person feels at the moment.As if they are telling the public what's going on with their life.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
25 Apr 17
he still shares some heart-breaking posts and he does not directly answer me when i ask him.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
26 Apr 17
@ShifaLk i checked my FB page this morning. the girl posted something about being in a cold place and misses hugs. my male colleague did not even like the post-no thumb up sign from him. so it means, he is hurting.
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@ShifaLk (17811)
• India
26 Apr 17
@ridingbet because maybe like me he doesn't wanna speak now
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
28 Apr 17
indeed. his latest posts are once again about frustrations. he rarely gives a 'heart' icon when the girl posts something. and i think you know my other personality of being so 'makulit', and when i need answers, i would 'nag' at him.
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@prashu228 (37518)
• India
28 Apr 17
Agree, these days people pour their feelings /heart on Facebook . It has its pros and cons. This happens when we don't have anyone( family/friends) to share our feelings or talk or hang out. But people are comfortable in their own ways . They choose what they want.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
29 Apr 17
i agree. Gb is JUST a social medium so we still have to have our own personal lives free from the eyes of the public.
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
25 Apr 17
yes, and if we are not so close to the one who was left behind, it would be good to keep our distance, as they might not be ready to be consoled by others.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
24 Apr 17
That is true. My sister uses her Facebook page to post her sentiments but seldom do her posts receive likes and comments. It is her way of expressing her thoughts directed to my siblings.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
26 Apr 17
sharing the woes of life gains sympathy from others. at the same time, when anger is also shared, the netizens will be angry as well.
@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
24 Apr 17
I wish you all find a solution soon
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
24 Apr 17
not me, but him. but may i ask if your comment pertains to my discussion?
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
29 Apr 17
yes, that is true. he really wants advice, but maybe embarrassed to ask from others.
@Alternative4 (449)
•
24 Apr 17
If I understand well he can`t deal with the truth. Many people find it hard to accept it. Unrequited love hurts. Although reason tells us we should let go, it just doesn`t happen over night. But playing on pity does not help. He probably knows but needs time.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
24 Apr 17
i think he is asking for sympathy from us, his colleagues, but the more questions asked to him, the less he responds, so the never-ending questions continue until an answer is said.
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
24 Apr 17
and i am doing my role as a mother to him. i am squeezing out his emotions about his posts. (he is an orphan to his mother).

















