I Asked Her To Change My Name

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I always laugh when I get a wrong text from someone because I share the same nickname as her house helper/business assistant. Some of the messages are "Please bring the laptop upstairs" or "Why are the boarders complaining about x, y and z?" Today, I got a text about helping her bring clothes, pet, etc to her daughter, so I suggested that she change my name in her phone's contact list to something longer, but still similar, so that she will notice the difference and avoid texting the wrong person. For example, here in the Philippines, if your name is Elizabeth and your nickname is Beth, others might create new nicknames out of your nickname like Betsy or Betchay. Or if your name is Mario, your nickname could be Mar, Mars or Marsky. On the other hand, I had a college classmate whose name starts with A and she has no nickname. I remember her saying she's used to getting calls day and night from people who are calling someone else because her name is usually on the top/first on the contact list and they would accidentally press it. One time, I got a text from someone looking for Jacob or Jason asking if he is still selling his phone. I ignored it the first time. But when they texted again after a month or so, I finally answered to clarify that he has the wrong number and person, and that I don't have a BlackBerry for sale. A more serious message I received was about family financial issues. There were several long messages and asking about certain incidents. I finally replied to say we have no family members living or working in Canada. Do you ever get calls or text on your mobile or landline that’s come from nowhere or because it’s slightly similar to another house or a business?