A Real Yahoo Moment
By celticeagle
@celticeagle (189792)
Boise, Idaho
June 26, 2017 11:22pm CST
We had a tender moment here this evening that I wanted to share. It was so nice to see.
My granddaughter and her son have been staying here with us for the last week or so. It is different having a baby here and the noise and such is not what we are used to.
My grandson, who is 14, is pretty used to having his world uninterrupted and he has a pretty overbearing personality. He and my granddaughter had words earlier because the baby got something of my grandson's and was playing with it. My grandson felt that baby's mom should have taken care of it and granddaughter wanted to see how he would handle it so she didn't do anything right away. Words flew. It continued upstairs when my grandson just walked into her bedroom without knocking. He felt justified and didn't apologize. Words flew again.
My daughter and I just let them figure it out. No reason to interfere.
My granddaughter and I were busy talking in my room and I told her that it has been my experience that after I have a upset like this with him he will 2 times out of three come up a while later and apologize. I felt good that my granddaughter did not get mad and start something nasty. She calmly and nicely told him that wasn't the way to handle it. He just spit something under his breath and just walked off. She used to be very much like him.
So about a half an hour later my grandson came back upstairs and had granddaughter's sunglasses in his hand. He had gone out of his way to find a part and fix her glasses. What a nice gesture! My granddaughter stood up and hugged him. It was very touching
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@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
27 Jun 17
I am glad the younger ones figured it out.
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@celticeagle (189792)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Jun 17
My granddaughter is 25 and I am proud of how she handles things.
@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
27 Jun 17
Aww. That was very nice.
We all have been like that one time or another. Glad things are better now.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
28 Jun 17
yes it is very hard when things get disrupted in the house as i am well aware of especially getting used to a baby around. things will settle down after a bit with most but sometimes a strong personality (like my daughter) will just see that things go her way , like here and that will be that. things change again right when you got used to them. uuugghh!
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@celticeagle (189792)
• Boise, Idaho
29 Jun 17
Yes, it is. Especially when we are used to peace and quiet here except for Josh's anger outbursts on occasion. Josh and your daughter sound a lot a like.
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@celticeagle (189792)
• Boise, Idaho
30 Jun 17
@bunnybon7 .....Glad there is some hope.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
30 Jun 17
@celticeagle yes but she is now 43 yrs and quite the worker and perfectionist. shes been diagnosed with ADHD and just started meds for it. so there is hope
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@BelleStarr (61463)
• United States
27 Jun 17
Families are complex things and learning what works in yours is obviously something that has taken a while but seems to be working nicely.
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@celticeagle (189792)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Jun 17
We have all had our issues and it takes forever to get on the right meds and get these issues taken care of too. It's been a long time coming but things seem to be pretty mild now compared to what it was.
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@Marilynda1225 (91013)
• United States
1 Jul 17
Certainly was a nice gesture for your grandson to fix the sunglasses and you were right in letting them figure it out themselves. Children need to learn how to problem solve and of course apologize when needed.
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@celticeagle (189792)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Jun 17
Yes, I am just glad to see how my grandson decided to handle this situation.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Jun 17
@celticeagle A proud moment.
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@celticeagle (189792)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Jun 17
True of him really. He comes back around most times.
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@Gabugs (1895)
• United States
28 Jun 17
How wonderful @celticeagle Children are really forgiving and they seldom hold a malice. Truly an important lesson to learn from them.
@Csultzer (2)
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27 Jun 17
I think a lot of times as parents we intervene to much when it comes to children arguing. I always wait it outo and let them seeven if they can settle their differences themselves. If it gets out of hand then I step in. They have to learn tof finure it out on their own.
Good job grandma and mom for letting the kids figure it out and I'm glad it all worked out!
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