Questions You Should Ask Your Mate
By Alice Henry
@IreneVincent (15960)
United States
July 3, 2017 11:06am CST
If you are getting ready to get married or if you are already married and maybe an anniversary is coming up, this is a very good idea.
At a wedding shower recently, everyone was asked to write a question on a piece of paper and give it to the bride-to-be for her to ask her husband-to-be that night AFTER the shower.
And anyone who has an anniversary coming up should also get the answers from their husbands that same night. Everyone was given a piece of paper to write down the questions.
The bride-to-be was asked to read all the questions that were given to her by those who were attending the shower and to answer them herself as to how they pertained to the way she felt about her husband-to-be. I jotted some of them down.
QUESTIONS:
WHY do you love me? or in her case, why do you love HIM?
Why do you want to spend the rest of your life with me? (with him?)
(You get the idea, I’m sure.)
Wil you stick with me through tough times?
Will you be a great parent?
Will you support me, if I can’t support myself?
Will you grow with me, and not away from me?
Will you promise to put our relationship ahead of everything else?
There were other questions. I didn’t write them all down, but I thought these were some of the best ones.
The fact is that these are questions that couples should know about each other, either before they get married or NOW while they are still a couple. Some persons don’t really consider these things before they get married and the REALLY SHOULD.
What do you think? What other questions would you suggest?
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6 responses
@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
3 Jul 17
These are all questions that should (to me) be asked before even getting engaged, nevermind getting married.
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@CookieMonster46 (13453)
• United States
3 Jul 17
these are good questions, most you should know before you marry the person, and later down the road the person could change..
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Jul 17
Those are excellent questions. I should have asked those of my husband before we married.








