User 101
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
July 5, 2017 6:22pm CST
Do you know someone who uses you for the sake of herself?
I do have, and I call her user 101. I never had a friend who uses you for their own benefit not until this one. Well, we've known each other ever since. She was quiet and sweet, a typical Ilonggo girl from the south. We've been friends for 12 years, she went abroad to be a DH there. She always messages me on Facebook, she only does that when so called boyfriend ignored her and as ever loyal friend, I am always there to her rescue. I am a friend with her boyfriend by the way. I am the one who tells her boyfriend that she misses him and at the same time a stalker and give her some information about him. In short, I am the giver.
After 8 long years, she decided to go home, at last. I am happy for her because she will have the rest she wanted from her hard work abroad. So what she did, she contacted the boyfriend and gave him all the presents she could give him. And so they have reunited again. I thought she will come to see me as she promised me, and will talk about everything. I tried to reach a couple of times but seen zoned. Then, one time she reached out for me to tell me her issues about the boyfriend, about these and that. I listen and advise her that she need to take it easy. After that, she never messages me again. After a month, she visited my inbox and tell me her issues again, and as ever loyal, I was there listening to her life story in the hands of her boyfriend.
To make the story short. yes! She uses me only if she needs someone to talk. She only wants to be the center of the universe. She wants to be the queen and all. And what I noticed about her, is she being a copy cat.
Do you know someone having this kind of attitude issues?
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7 responses


@atoz1to10 (6780)
• Australia
6 Jul 17
Sorry to hear this... You remind me of a friend I use to have as well. She is a wife of my husband's friend. She only contacts me when she needs me to do something for her....
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@atoz1to10 (6780)
• Australia
6 Jul 17
@JustBhem I know... I also used to know this person who was/is my husband's friend. She was very friendly with me...later on I found out that she tried to get close to my husband via me... So our friendship didn't mean anything to her at all...
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Jul 17
@atoz1to10
That because she likes your husband?
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@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
6 Jul 17
You are a good friend to her and yes I have encountered selfish people before.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
6 Jul 17
There are a lot of users out there these days. I would ask myself if this is a friendship that I really want to have, If you are comfortable with it well, I would keep it. If you are annoyed and feeling used I would think twice about it.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
6 Jul 17
happily, i have no friend of that caliber. those people are 'friends in deed in time of need'. i don't like these type of friends.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
8 Jul 17
@JustBhem well, it is her loss, not yours, my friend. you will find more friends better than her, mark my word
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Jul 17
@ridingbet
Yes, you are right. I know longer talking to her.
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
6 Jul 17
I have been used by a few people, family and friends. As like my mom, I care about others and usually put others before myself, so they know I'll be there when they need something.
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
7 Jul 17
@JustBhem yes. Its a blessing and a curse.
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