Questions about kids behaviour now and then
@spaceseed (2843)
India
July 6, 2017 8:57pm CST
My younger daughter is kind of naughty as most of the children. Special treat of such children are they do things exactly on the time when they are not intended to do so. My little sweet daughter has a special time to do her tantrums which is from 7 am to 7.30 am. The time when her school bus comes for pickup.
at exactly 7.05 she went out of the home and hid herself in neighbourhood so that she dont have to go to school. But being her father I keep an eye on her and find her out and make her go to school. But believe me this is hardest job of the day for me. I love her and Its really hard to see your child crying. today I managed to find her and she was looking at me like ...............I can not explain.
Gosh!! this is toughest job for me.
I remember my childhood ..................I never did to my parents, rather I was the one who had received certificates on maximum attendance in school. Are we doing some thing wrong or today's kids are different from our times. ( born before 1990)
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
7 Jul 17
Please find it if there is any particular reason behind it? She may dislike going to school if she does not like her teacher or any other simple issues with class mates. The issues may be mild but block her interest to go to school. Sit with her and ask why she is not interested to go to school.
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@Bodyandbrain (13797)
• Gurgaon, India
7 Jul 17
It can be a normal behaviour of your daughter as you are saying that she is naughty, and it is so nice to know that you are such a caring father. I hope it's just her naughtiness that she doesn't want to go to school, but I fear there may be some reason behind it, I think you should talk to her about it.
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
7 Jul 17
naughtiness is only reason, secondly when I am at home she likes to be with me..........nothing suspicious. but schools are schools I was also naughty but never did for schooling. Yet I understand each person is different
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
7 Jul 17
@Bodyandbrain at school and home they are already been taught about good touch and bad touch and stuff which she has to take care
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@Bodyandbrain (13797)
• Gurgaon, India
7 Jul 17
@spaceseed okay, I understand that she likes to be with you so doesn't want to go to school.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
7 Jul 17
@spaceseed Half past four in the morning? What time is her school ? More importantly will she get enough sleep ?
@spaceseed (2843)
• India
7 Jul 17
she is very active lots of friends she has, but by putting this discussion I have come to find one easy solution as of my comment fro freelanzer. I will put alarm for half hour early so she is ready by time, and I am able to take her to her pickup point laughing
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@Freelanzer (10782)
• Canada
7 Jul 17
Don't take this the wrong way but is she maybe a little bit spoiled? Some kids are that way, they want what they want. But she is also still young and that may change.
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
7 Jul 17
Actually I need to put alarm a bit earlier. so we all get more time to gearup
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
7 Jul 17
Not everyone likes school, or listening to parents. So i wouldnt necessarily blame you as the parent. It could be her. Or maybe a reason she doesnt wsnt to be at school. How old is she
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
7 Jul 17
she is five. and very sharp, may be repeat of some activities are boring for her
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
7 Jul 17
@spaceseed shes so young. Most kids that age want to go to school.
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@sw8sincere (6032)
• Philippines
7 Jul 17
Kids nowadays seems to have a behavior like that i believe. After all, they are just a kid. They do not know the importance of studying so they don't bother to listen to you when you asked them to go prepare themselves for school. well, i believe it is just a matter of patience. You just have to ask them to do so by saying it in a nice and sweet way and not to frighten the kid. I hope ways as such helps.
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
7 Jul 17
morning hours are hectic, lot of activities are to be done. if kids do such activities............it affect the entire day
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Jul 17
I don't know what your culture is like, but here in the USA discipline is the hardest thing to do with a child and one that needs to be done so they know the rules and don't get away with tantrums. Unfortunately with the laws on child abuse what they are, parents are afraid to discipline their children, so they are totally out of hand here. In my day, we didn't act out or have temper tantrums. My parents weren't afraid to discipline. Kids need boundaries and I hope you can make your child understand she needs an education. It's not only good for her later life when it comes to getting a job, but it's essential now from a social aspect.
