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I was spraying Ally on a hot day, boy did she enjoy that.
@rebelann (117204)
El Paso, Texas
July 9, 2017 9:54am CST
I thought about what @patzanthony asked in her post and realized that most of the places my parents and grandparents knew as their homes no longer exist. But if I could I'd try to find the spot where my parents played as children. So much has changed since the early 1920s. Would you visit the neighborhoods your parents grew up in? Do those areas still exist as they were when your parents were young? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ That's Ally in the photo, it was hot and I was spraying her.
If you had the chance to visit the neighborhood where your parents or grandparents once lived-would you knock on a strangers door and ask to visit the house you...
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@LadyDuck (502204)
• Italy
9 Jul 17
The house of my grandmother, where my mother was born 96 years ago, is still up and still owned by my Mom family. Most of the neighbors are children or nephew of those who lived there in the past. Also the apartment where my father was born is still there.
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@rebelann (117204)
• El Paso, Texas
9 Jul 17
You are so lucky. I wish people would stop rebuilding everything, it just messes things up.
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@LadyDuck (502204)
• Italy
10 Jul 17
@rebelann I agree, in most European cities the old houses cannot be demolished, they must be refurbished without changing the style.
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@rebelann (117204)
• El Paso, Texas
10 Jul 17
That makes perfect sense @LadyDuck I wonder how long it will take for us to learn that.
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
10 Jul 17
My father's parents house was demolished long ago, but I'm not sure about my other grandparents. I remember it as being a tiny cottage in the country with a huge garden, and we had many happy times there. I'd like to keep it that way in my memory, so I don't think I would like to go back, just in case it's not there. Lovely photo of Ally.
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@rebelann (117204)
• El Paso, Texas
10 Jul 17
I can understand your sentiment. I never got to actually see the original homes of either of my parents or grandparents so I have nothing to which to compare what might be there now. Thank you, I took it a few years ago on a very hot day.
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@rusty2rusty (6771)
• Defiance, Ohio
9 Jul 17
I know where my dad grew up is still there. Not for my mom, it was torn down long ago. Still drive through the area.
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• Defiance, Ohio
9 Jul 17
@rebelann Yes, I am lucky that I don't live too far from where they grew up. Just over the county line from each other.
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@rebelann (117204)
• El Paso, Texas
9 Jul 17
At least you can imagine how it was for your parents, I live too far away from where my folks grew up and I know that they moved a few times when they were young as well.
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• United States
10 Jul 17
My parents' childhood home are still existing, but I have never been.
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• United States
11 Jul 17
@rebelann maybe but I'll have to hop on an airplane ;)
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@rebelann (117204)
• El Paso, Texas
11 Jul 17
That could turn out to be fun @infatuatedbby
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@rebelann (117204)
• El Paso, Texas
10 Jul 17
At least they still exist. Do you suppose you might want to visit those one day?
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@prashu228 (37518)
• India
9 Jul 17
Yes ,I know. Infact my mom and dad belongs to the same place and same locality. So we know their place ,where they spent their childhood .
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@rebelann (117204)
• El Paso, Texas
9 Jul 17
That is wonderful. Do they tell you stories about how it was when they were young?
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@prashu228 (37518)
• India
9 Jul 17
@rebelann yes my mother says a lot...
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• United States
9 Jul 17
Well my Moms place is in Ireland and she brought us there when we were children. My Dads place is Sicily so never made it there RIP Dad.
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@rebelann (117204)
• El Paso, Texas
9 Jul 17
Wow, you got to go to Ireland? I'd always wanted to see places like Ireland, Scotland and Whales .... oh well, at least I got to see Germany, right?
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@rebelann (117204)
• El Paso, Texas
9 Jul 17
I was between ages 6 to 9 @TiarasOceanView what I remember was having a blast riding on the train, I got to see a lot of livestock as the train drove by and I got into trouble because I didn't obey the rules. I'd love to go back to see it from an adult point of view.
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• United States
9 Jul 17
@rebelann Yes Germany is so beautiful Rebel.
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
9 Jul 17
The street on which I grew up was demolished many years ago.
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@rebelann (117204)
• El Paso, Texas
9 Jul 17
That's a bummer. I hope you at least have fond memories.
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
9 Jul 17
@rebelann I can picture the place very well.
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@rebelann (117204)
• El Paso, Texas
10 Jul 17
Wow, you're so lucky @Asylum
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@allen0187 (59645)
• Philippines
10 Jul 17
I know where my parents lived before as we lived in those places as well.
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@allen0187 (59645)
• Philippines
10 Jul 17
@rebelann both houses where my parents lived are still owned by their respective families.
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@rebelann (117204)
• El Paso, Texas
10 Jul 17
That is so kool @allen0187
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@rebelann (117204)
• El Paso, Texas
10 Jul 17
You're lucky, I've never lived close to any of my grandparents and have never even seen the homes my parents grew up in.
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
10 Jul 17
i love seeing older posts pop up
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@rebelann (117204)
• El Paso, Texas
10 Jul 17
Some of them are really interesting.
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
10 Jul 17
@rebelann yes they are
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@BelleStarr (61463)
• United States
10 Jul 17
I have been to the house my mother was born in many times, the house where my father grew up is gone now but i did see it many times over the years.
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@rebelann (117204)
• El Paso, Texas
10 Jul 17
Well at least you have wonderful memories of your roots.
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
9 Jul 17
Only my Dad's home still exists and it is one of my cousins that has it now. My Mom's place is long gone.
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@rebelann (117204)
• El Paso, Texas
9 Jul 17
I hope you visit your cousin once in a while.
@DianneN (254949)
• United States
9 Jul 17
Love that photo of Ally! Nice way to cool off. My parents' homes are long gone, sad to say.
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@rebelann (117204)
• El Paso, Texas
9 Jul 17
Thank you. Yeah, same here. Both my parents were moved around a few times when they were growing up, I guess because of the depression, times were very hard back then.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
10 Jul 17
@rebelann Yes, indeed. My parents moved several times, too. Why? I really don't know.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
11 Jul 17
No, nothing exists that was there when they were children. Everything is completely changed. My mothers house is still standing. My nephew lives there.
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@rebelann (117204)
• El Paso, Texas
11 Jul 17
I wish it were more like it was back in the 1800s when people kept their childhood homes. Times really have changed.
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@rebelann (117204)
• El Paso, Texas
13 Jul 17
Yes, unfortunately @RubyHawk
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
13 Jul 17
@rebelann I would love that but those days have mostly passed away.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
23 Oct 17
My father grew up in Bessarabia which is near Russia so cannot visit where he grew up and my grandparents grew up in the Ukraine so cannot visit where they grew up. When I was still in the States or visiting I did visit my grandfather's house he lived in by the school I went to. I met some of his neighbors and they all had such nice things to say about him.
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@rebelann (117204)
• El Paso, Texas
23 Oct 17
I haven't met anyone who knew my parents as children other than aunts or uncles or grandparents but I was so young when I met them that I didn't know to ask anything about them. All connections with cousins have been lost so I don't even have those kinds of ties.
@rebelann (117204)
• El Paso, Texas
23 Oct 17
Oh yes, I know how that feels @Hannihar I've tried to find cousins I know I have but nothing I did helped, either they are not online or else records were not properly kept, I know that as far as my great grand parents are concerned all that information was lost when the County Court house in that region burned down in 1925.
@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
24 Oct 17
@rebelann rebelann, very frustrating isn't it. I remember how excited I was when I first moved here. I went back to bring things here and asked a cousin if we had relatives here and we happened to have. I contacted them but could not speak to them at the time in Hebrew and now can do not know what happened to them. So, it is just my cat and myself. I guess records can be gone when there is a fire. That is a shame. Have you tried the geneogology sites. I can't remember because I do not use them anymore. I only went into the Jewish ones. I may have some family from Russia that may be in the country for all I know and will never find them and I do not speak Russian. My parents spoke Yiddish which is what the Jews spoke in Europe and also there are Jews that speak it here. My grandfather or father never spoke Russian.
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