What do you call about this attitude?
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
September 11, 2017 5:33pm CST
It was the first time I heard the boyfriend complaining about someone. He was complaining about a patient in the center who asked him to buy her food. In the center, we used to ask someone for favor especially those patients who don't have a watcher or someone with them.
This patient asked him to buy food and what he complaint is this patient has a watcher. She has her sister with her. The boyfriend was having a second thought whether he should do her a favor when in fact she has someone. The patient reason was, she was afraid that there might something wrong with her during her session. But there are nurses in the center who can assist her if there is something goes bad will happen to her.
That time the boyfriend needs to go to the blood bank for some paper, but since he can't say no. He simply agreed and bought that bossy patient her food. And I thought about buying her food right in front of the center where there are stores who sell foods. But she was asking him to buy at Jollibee which is too far away from the center, he needs to cross the street.
I told the boyfriend to never attend to her favor anymore.
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12 responses
@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
11 Sep 17
Oh I see Bhem..he was kind to the bossy patient and went out of his way to do it.
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@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
11 Sep 17
@JustBhem Yes he is good nature and what we call a soft touch here...he is too nice.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Sep 17
@TiarasOceanView
He is indeed. But he needs to say no the next time that patient ask him.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
11 Sep 17
I would have said no. He was wrong to agree.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
12 Sep 17
@JustBhem Shouldn´t he tell this patient that he must not ask some things?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Sep 17
@marguicha
I will tell her the next time she will ask the boyfriend.
I know it is not right to have an attitude like that.
We consider if only she has no watcher that time but she had.
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@louievill (28846)
• Philippines
12 Sep 17
What do we call this attitude? These are the " give them a finger they want your arm" type of people.
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@louievill (28846)
• Philippines
12 Sep 17
@JustBhem they are like that because they got what they wanted through that means perhaps so many times, somebody needs to tell them.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Sep 17
@louievill
I heard it for some patients as well that she use to be like that most of the time.
I will tell her the next time she will favor from the boyfriend again.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
11 Sep 17
Yes, that lady is taking advantage of him, that was wrong to do that!:(
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
12 Sep 17
@JustBhem He needs to learn how to say NO, and then leave her sit there.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Sep 17
@kobesbuddy
I will tell him that. Thanks.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Sep 17
@ilocosboy
He is kind to say no, but the next time there will be no yes anymore.
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@m_audrey6788 (58468)
• Germany
12 Sep 17
Gosh! Your boyfriend has problem in saying "No", I hope he`ll get no problem with his work performances due to helping others that who don`t need it. 
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@m_audrey6788 (58468)
• Germany
12 Sep 17
@JustBhem ..Yes..Tell him to give some good reasons too in a nice way 
I`m sure they will understand as long as you tell them in a good and understandable way 
I`m sure they will understand as long as you tell them in a good and understandable way 1 person likes this
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788
Yes, it will be nice to say No.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
12 Sep 17
Is that included in his job description?
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
12 Sep 17
@JustBhem Some people don't have that and Filipinos are also shy to refuse. We have to be honest of how we feel towards this situation sometimes.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Sep 17
@toniganzon
I told the boyfriend to refuse if she asks again.
We heard a lot about her being bossy all the time.
Asking for favors even if she has someone with her which is not right.
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@Letranknight2015 (52665)
• Philippines
12 Sep 17
Hes not a waiter or a butler if you asked me. They could do that to other relatives or friends, if she has one that is. But never ask that to a medical staff.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
12 Sep 17
that person (the patient) was rude even though she may have requested your boyfriend to buy her food. the nerve to 'send your BF to Jollibee'? she should just asked him to buy at a nearest store rather than endangering himself in crossing the streets. even if the patient will 'give your BF a tip', still that is unacceptable behavior for me.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 Sep 17
@JustBhem yes. i think the watcher and the significant other of a patient that we had issues with my student belong to the same feather, my friend. same issues, same kind, same level of personality.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Sep 17
@ridingbet
And I don't like that kind of attitude, my friend.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Sep 17
And I heard so much about her my friend that she always like that, being bossy to everyone.
What is the use of having a watcher then? Just for display?
The reason to have a watcher is to have someone to watch over us during our 4 hours session to tend to our needs.
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
12 Sep 17
I dont think it was wrong, or right..
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