Sorry, not sorry?

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
October 18, 2017 9:31am CST
When is the best time to say we are sorry? Is it after the heated arguments or during arguments? My 3rd Brother and my cousins are having their drinking session outside our house and some of them are already stoned. One cousin feels off to what my other cousin was saying so he leaves and never come back. My Brother talked to one of my cousins that he should change his ways in making other people feel a little bit off. He didn't get it and misunderstood what my Brother was telling him and he leaves too. Later, he went back and was sorry if he acted rudely. My Brother understand it and take his sorry. Thank God no more drinking session happening outside. They all went home peacefully.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
18 Oct 17
To describe that reunion as a "drinking session" sounds to me as if nothing that is said there has any consequence
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Oct 17
Meaning?
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
18 Oct 17
@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
18 Oct 17
@JustBhem If a person is "stoned" as you say, he will not act the same way as if he was sober.
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@cttolledo (5459)
• Legaspi, Philippines
18 Oct 17
For me, the perfect time to say sorry is after full realization of what have you done.
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@cttolledo (5459)
• Legaspi, Philippines
18 Oct 17
@JustBhem But commitment is very important to me. Sorry is nothing if someone keeps on repeating the same bad traits.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Oct 17
@cttolledo Nah, I learned my lesson when it comes to someone like that. First and second mistake, I can take it. But the 3rd one.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Oct 17
Yeah, it is too. Sometimes we need to go away, breathe in and breathe out. Then let it go.
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@antonbunot (11146)
• Calgary, Alberta
19 Oct 17
I don't say sorry, I sing sorry! Have you heard this song - - " I'm sorry, my love . . . if I have broken your heart last night . . I beg you to forgive me . . and be my love again!" sang by Victor Wood. I used to sing this to my wife after an argument . . and I sang it a bit out of tune to sound funny. . . . hehehe
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Oct 17
Hahaha. You make me laugh sir Julito.
@ilocosboy (45155)
• Philippines
18 Oct 17
that is a good thing to follow especially those who commit misunderstanding during drinking session. When is the best time to say sorry? Find the perfect timing
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Oct 17
Exactly. What a good point there.
@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
18 Oct 17
Drinking can often cause some misunderstandings. Glad that they all worked it out and went home peacefully.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Oct 17
Yeah, that is the good thing about it.
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@Kandae11 (57233)
18 Oct 17
Too much drinking can bring out the unpleasant side of a person.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Oct 17
And sometimes the truth as well.
@prashu228 (37518)
• India
18 Oct 17
Glad patch up is done finally and peaceful..