She Gave Up Everything But Gain Nothing
By Alian123
@Alian123 (549)
Philippines
November 8, 2017 3:58am CST
I have a friend who resides in other city (Tacloban) she's a really good friend of mine; jolly, smart, kind, humorous, and beautiful, that's what she is...
She's already engage, but that guy cheated on him, what a jerk!
And the worst part is she gave up everything to that guy, as in everything! And now my friend is really messed up and doesn't know what to do, she used to get everything in control but now, she just keep herself lock up in her room
And the guy? My god! He doesn't even care...
My friend is just so depressed right now, I can't even talk to her, I won't even know her situation if it wasn't for her mom. I just miss her so much, and the person she used to be 
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8 responses
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
8 Nov 17
So what if she gave everything to him. She is not pregnant, so she should just move on, circulate with friends and pray that she gets a new boyfriend that can take her to the altar, not just a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.
As a friend, you can help her move on again. Go out with her and your friends. Keep her happy and see to it that she gets angry with that jerk boyfriend of her. That being so, she can easily move on from her break-up with the jerk.
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@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
8 Nov 17
Till such time you cannot reach up to her, you cannot give her a helping hand. She probably need immediate counselling. It should be conveyed to her that she should try to forget what has happened with her and should move ahead.
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@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
9 Nov 17
@Alian123 It seems that she has either not read your messages or have ignored those messages. Hopefully, she would come to terms soon.
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@Alian123 (549)
• Philippines
9 Nov 17
@dpk262006 Yes I do hope so too, thank you so much.
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@m_audrey6788 (58468)
• Germany
8 Nov 17
Hi there sweet, concerned friend 
I understand your feeling right now as I also had some friends who gave up everything for a guy but made her miserable The only thing I did was giving her a visit at home and insert different kind of funny notes to cheer her up and I remember buying her chocolates and wrote there "Don`t try to eat this if you`re not ready to laugh!" 
And I just remembered her replied back "Don`t try throwing away the chocolate wrapper, It means a lot to me but give me a little time and I`ll get back to you" Then from there I know that she was doing fine just needed sometime to accept the things 
I understand your feeling right now as I also had some friends who gave up everything for a guy but made her miserable The only thing I did was giving her a visit at home and insert different kind of funny notes to cheer her up and I remember buying her chocolates and wrote there "Don`t try to eat this if you`re not ready to laugh!" And I just remembered her replied back "Don`t try throwing away the chocolate wrapper, It means a lot to me but give me a little time and I`ll get back to you" Then from there I know that she was doing fine just needed sometime to accept the things 2 people like this
@m_audrey6788 (58468)
• Germany
8 Nov 17
@Alian123 I don`t know if it will work fine as we all think differently, That`s why my shared experience is to give you an idea on how you can simply help a friend but you can still do many other ways to let her out of those miseries
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@Alian123 (549)
• Philippines
8 Nov 17
@m_audrey6788 Yes, I and the others will do everything we can...
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@averygirl72 (38849)
• Philippines
8 Nov 17
That's a sad story. Sometimes life is not exactly as expected. Hope she recover from her depression
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@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
8 Nov 17
when you talk with her mother can you ask her to pass the phone to your friend so you can talk to her?
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@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
8 Nov 17
@Alian123 ask her mother to help you talk to her, even if only by phone.
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@Alian123 (549)
• Philippines
8 Nov 17
@hereandthere Yes I would do that, thank you so much.
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@ilocosboy (45155)
• Philippines
8 Nov 17
maybe you need to pay some visit to her, a mere talk in her room will be a big thing on her. Just go and don't think twice to visit her. She may or may not let you enter her room, but that's important thing now.
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