I feel so relieved...........I am negative!!
@CaptAlbertWhisker (32760)
Calgary, Alberta
November 12, 2017 10:39am CST
I do admit I am sexually active, I am not dating someone but One night stands are easy to find on Tinder..... I got scared a week ago after watching the story of a guy who ends up having an STD despite of using a condom. So I decided to quit Tinder....I hope for good this time around.
I got an STD test and I am so nervous to read the result, It is negative. I feel relieved I have no STD despite of being too promiscuous.
I do realized I am a mess at this point of my life. I just feel lonely that is why I resorted to Tinder. I do have a decent job and all but I feel that I have an empty void. I need a real relationship and not casual sex.
I do need to quit using the Tinder app, I just deleted my Tinder account and I decided to try the dating app coffee meets Bagle which is a serious dating app and not a casual fling like Tinder.
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32760)
• Calgary, Alberta
12 Nov 17
When I was a teen, I do dating that way, I think I became dependent on Tinder because it is easier to meet women who finds me attractive there than going on a guessing game.
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@LadyDuck (502148)
• Italy
13 Nov 17
@CaptAlbertWhisker They are surely women who are only searching for an adventure, it seems it's not what you are looking for now.
@CaptAlbertWhisker (32760)
• Calgary, Alberta
13 Nov 17
@LadyDuck Yeah I am tired of just being an adventure. Tinder is not good for finding relationship at all.
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Loneliness is worse in a big city.@CaptAlbertWhisker (32760)
• Calgary, Alberta
12 Nov 17
Yeah the candle sized fire can't keep you warm on the winter within. I think I became dependent a bit of it because it is easy to use but relationships for long term is impossible.
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32760)
• Calgary, Alberta
13 Nov 17
@pgntwo and the Inmate correctional penpals.
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@pgntwo (22405)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
12 Nov 17
@CaptAlbertWhisker Beats the Singles columns in the local free weekly newspaper, I guess, for immediacy.
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32760)
• Calgary, Alberta
12 Nov 17
I guess living in a conservative country for a long time might have unleashed my repressed side. I know it is risky. I will give my best to not reinstall the app again.
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
14 Nov 17
@CaptAlbertWhisker Seriously, concentrate on finding friendships - for now. Go out and meet people personally . . . don't rely on an app or online stuff. Maybe that is out of your comfort zone, but perhaps this Tinder thing has become a comfort zone - so time to step out!
@CaptAlbertWhisker (32760)
• Calgary, Alberta
15 Dec 17
@much2say I had been sober from Tinder for weeks. I think if love will come love will come. My past relationship happened unexpectedly. I didnt even courted women it just happened. No more tinder for me though there is temptation.
@CaptAlbertWhisker (32760)
• Calgary, Alberta
12 Nov 17
I hope I will get to that, I have some problems with finding someone who can commit.
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@RasmaSandra (97912)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
12 Nov 17
Hope you find a good relationship. Since my husband passed away in August I am totally alone but not searching and won't search for relationships but I would love to have a friend at least. So here I sit talking to myself trying to deal with my situation and hoping to sell my house and stuff here and get back to my homeland the U.S. then perhaps things will change in my life.
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32760)
• Calgary, Alberta
13 Nov 17
I do want to have a real relationship. I guess my last break up really messed me up.
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@RasmaSandra (97912)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Nov 17
@CaptAlbertWhisker well I do wish the very best for you.
@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
12 Nov 17
What is wrong with meeting someone, locally? Is that a definite NoNo?
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32760)
• Calgary, Alberta
13 Nov 17
I have to outsource online to find someone who finds me attractive.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
13 Nov 17
@CaptAlbertWhisker Attractiveness is on the inside. Some of the most beautiful people every born, are hateful and extremely ugly on the inside:(
