Cant believe some people!

@Ithink (10106)
United States
December 19, 2017 8:01pm CST
I can understand being upset that someone leaves you, I cant understand stalking and I really can not understand taking it out on kids! So our daughter Amber finally got smart and left the ummm jerk that has abused her over and over. They have a baby together who just turned 2 months old. First she has nothing and I mean really nothing to her name now. However we have all pulled together while she is staying at a friends home for now. Not sure where she will end up at thou. Anyways she walks to the doctors office ( a nice long walk) with Emma the baby. Gets there and the jerk had called and cancelled the appointment! WHO DOES THAT?! When they were together they signed the kids up for some program for Christmas, she gets there at 9:30, he already went and took the presents meant for the kids! I have never been a fan of his but was cordial but I am about to flip.
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@josie_ (10033)
• Philippines
20 Dec 17
He IS a jerk. I hope your daughter never consider reconciling with him. These abusive men are very manipulative. What he is doing now is acting the brute. Expect him to play the pleading "I will change if you give me another chance" character role soon.
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
21 Dec 17
She did before and got beat up again, he has hit her a few times. When she called the police they told her they would take both of them in if they came out. She was 8 months pregnant at the time! She left but went back when he promised to stop and never do it again. Yeah that didn't last. I'm so hoping she doesn't go back!
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
20 Dec 17
What a jerk indeed. How old is he, 12?
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
21 Dec 17
That is how I feel, well maybe more feeling like I need to pay him a visit and show him how it feels to do things like hit someone around and then take things from kids!
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
29 Dec 17
@sugartoes So far karma isn't working.
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
20 Dec 17
Oh my ! What a jerk he is. Hope things get better for her soon
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
21 Dec 17
Me too, the family and a few friends are trying to help as much as we can.
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
23 Dec 17
@Courtlynn Pfftt despite us all pulling together and getting her all she needs, plus more she went back. I'm just disgusted!
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
21 Dec 17
@Ithink thats good.
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@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
20 Dec 17
What a mean human being, he wants her to have it so hard hat she will run back to him, I see this is how he is still controlling her life.
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
21 Dec 17
I agree and she has gone back about 4 times because of this, I'm so hoping she doesn't this time!
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
22 Dec 17
@andriaperry Just found out from a friend that she did, tells me why she hasn't talked to any family the last few days. Not sure what to do.
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@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
21 Dec 17
@Ithink me too
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
20 Dec 17
Yikes, he sounds almost like a mental basket case:(
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
21 Dec 17
@Ithink That's terrible, he needs to grow up and learn how a normal adult acts.
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
22 Dec 17
@kobesbuddy He is a sick person that is for sure! Found out she went back.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
22 Dec 17
@Ithink Oh my gosh, your daughter is in for trouble again!
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@YrNemo (20254)
20 Dec 17
"jerk" sounds an appropriate name for that ex of your daughter.
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
21 Dec 17
Well I think it is to nice of a word, but the other isn't something I would say often!
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@YrNemo (20254)
22 Dec 17
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
21 Dec 17
hes being nasty trying to force her to return. shows what a butt he still is. better try and get some advocates for abused women on her side some how.
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
22 Dec 17
There is nothing like that here, found out she went back. Found out from a friend.
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
24 Dec 17
@bunnybon7 No there isnt, just sit back and hope.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
22 Dec 17
@Ithink that is too bad. sometimes there is not much we can do once they are grown
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@yanzalong (19091)
• Indonesia
20 Dec 17
What a day it was!
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
21 Dec 17
To say the least!
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
20 Dec 17
I think he is a cetified jerk.
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
21 Dec 17
I think you are right and that is being nice about it with him!
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@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
20 Dec 17
sounds like he doesn't care about his own son, either.
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
21 Dec 17
Well the boy, my grandson Zack is another guys son. So I don't know what he is trying to prove there. Other then he is a big jerk!
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
20 Dec 17
A jerk all right. Sorry that your daughter has to go through this.
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
21 Dec 17
Thank you, I'm just astounded that someone acts like this and takes it out on the kids to get to the mom. I shouldn't be with somethings you hear and read about with things like this but I still am. Guess it is just because it is something I would never do.
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
20 Dec 17
Can she take out a restraining order against him, or notify these places of the situation so he cannot continue doing these things to her? When my aunt split from her (ex)husband after 21 years (he cheated on her and was the one who filed for divorce), he stalked her...well, he's still stalking her, 3 or 4 years later!...men like that are trying to intimidate their ex partner and control them. I can't stand men like that; there is something very, very wrong with them.
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
21 Dec 17
All the places know, the doctors office wouldn't even print out a thing saying he cancelled it for her, just in case he tried to say she wasn't taking care of Emmas health needs. I told her they can be subpoenaed then. I just want a few minutes alone with this jerk!
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
20 Dec 17
Wow. That is great she is rid of him!
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
22 Dec 17
@paigea It is and found out tonight that she went back.
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
21 Dec 17
I hope she sticks with it thou! She has gone back before when he beat her up!
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
21 Dec 17
@Ithink oh I hope so. What a worry
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
20 Dec 17
Oh that jerk should be punished
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
21 Dec 17
I would love to!! No one will let me go visit him!!
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@LeaPea2417 (40020)
• Toccoa, Georgia
21 Dec 17
What a creep! Is there a way to report what he has done to the police, just to make them aware of the kind of guy he is? Who knows, he could do something violent next.
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• United States
1 Jan 18
Sounds like a terrible situation.
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
1 Jan 18
@CookieMonster46 It is and she just cant seem to get it.
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
2 Jan 18
@CookieMonster46 I guess I don't get it being smacked around you would think would be right in your face. Drives me insane.
• United States
1 Jan 18
@Ithink sometimes people can't always see what you see.
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