He Or She Confusing How To Judge The Username.
By Nitin
@nitirrbb7 (4317)
India
December 24, 2017 7:32am CST
Its a bit confusing at times to figure out who the user is male or female by the user names
.
Exceptional only if the display picture is revealing either ways its no chance
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It once happened with me that I mistakenly addressed a lady as bro. and later she cleared me that she was sis. and not a bro.
That was really an Oops
moment because even the display picture couldn't reveal the identity
This confusion still continues at times, but how to ask if you are a he or a she
Image Credit:_ Pixabay.
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Exceptional only if the display picture is revealing either ways its no chance.
It once happened with me that I mistakenly addressed a lady as bro. and later she cleared me that she was sis. and not a bro.
That was really an Oops moment because even the display picture couldn't reveal the identity
This confusion still continues at times, but how to ask if you are a he or a she
Image Credit:_ Pixabay.12 people like this
14 responses
@Kandae11 (57233)
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24 Dec 17
@nitirrbb7 Another member had made that same suggestion previously too.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
24 Dec 17
Your suggestion should certainly be given consideration as its really great, my 
for you.
for you.4 people like this
@creativeaashish (2609)
• Kathmandu, Nepal
24 Dec 17
That would be of great help!
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
24 Dec 17
I have been called "dude" by some people. As I am a woman, and an old woman, I´d say that dude is not the way to address me. But I would not address that way to anyone I don´t know in person. So, there are ways of responding that don´t include bro, sis or dude
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
24 Dec 17
But you have a picture that reveals who you are and even though you were addressed as dude. I should take your advice and not consider responding anyone bro sis or dude if I don't know the person
. I should take your advice and not consider responding anyone bro sis or dude if I don't know the person4 people like this
@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
24 Dec 17
@nitirrbb7 That picture is maybe 30 years old What if I place a man´s picture? We can do anything we want as usernames go. A person is more than his/her genre
What if I place a man´s picture? We can do anything we want as usernames go. A person is more than his/her genre3 people like this
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
25 Dec 17
Sir for a women I can understand the embarrassment when a female had fumbled and address me as madam on my face it was funniest moment I ever had in my life
for a women I can understand the embarrassment when a female had fumbled and address me as madam on my face it was funniest moment I ever had in my life3 people like this
@sishy7 (27166)
• Australia
25 Dec 17
@nitirrbb7 Oh, and of course 'dude' and 'mate' too... Yeah, I don't really care as it's obvious that they do not know me and I do not really know them either... Besides, I don't really make it clear myself from my avatar/username about my gender...
Oh, and of course 'dude' and 'mate' too... Yeah, I don't really care as it's obvious that they do not know me and I do not really know them either... Besides, I don't really make it clear myself from my avatar/username about my gender...2 people like this
@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
24 Dec 17
You certainly are a super cool lady
and I really like you for that
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and I really like you for that.2 people like this
@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
25 Dec 17
@sishy7 I guess men wont find it a problem guessing you by your username as its more feminine and even the naught cat profile pic makes it dam sure that its a lady user
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
24 Dec 17
@Icydoll I admit that is funny and I was in a hurry when signing up on mylot . The worst part was my wife pointed out it to me and now you
. The worst part was my wife pointed out it to me and now you 3 people like this
@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
24 Dec 17
@LadyDuck Without a doubt your username and picture are really beautiful
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
26 Dec 17
Yeah at times specially with new comers when they have usernames and profile pics that don't reveal their identity.
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@arthurchappell (44941)
• Preston, England
24 Dec 17
in most cases the gender of who I am replying or reacting to isn't too relevent
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
24 Dec 17
Great even though you never encountered scenario like mine
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
25 Dec 17
I've had people call me that, and it's confusing why they do when my name is obviously female, and so is my picture, the one I had before this one, though I have had people tell me I look masculine. I don't see it. I'm definitely a female.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
30 Mar 18
Yeah your name is more than enough to guess that, I had not seen your earlier picture but in this picture its clear to make out that you are a women and I don't find you having masculine features
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@Shiva49 (28371)
• Singapore
28 Dec 17
@nitirrbb7 Most seem to have no issues by the responses I got but then the site does not make it compulsory - siva
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
28 Dec 17
@Shiva49 Yeah most people are not so bothered if they are addressed as he instead of her, and the site might be working on it may be an update in the near future.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
27 Dec 17
Great you had it doubted a long time ago and still its a question as to how should we
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
30 Mar 18
@nitirrbb7
I have thought a woman was a man too and also someone that I was a man too. I am not.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
1 Apr 18
@nitirrbb7
Nitin, maybe that is good if people cannot see our profiles clearly.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
30 Mar 18
I am sorry but it really is funny at times when our profile picture does not clearly display our identity
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
24 Dec 17
yes it is difficult, so I usually would mention I have kids, I am a housewife, then members will know that I am a lady
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
24 Dec 17
That's smart of you do and even your username is a little revealing that only a lady would prefer
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@creativeaashish (2609)
• Kathmandu, Nepal
24 Dec 17
Okay! Yeah that’s problem! But I think you should feel free to ask them in the messages! I do the same!Hope that helps you!
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
24 Dec 17
That's nice just concentrate on the response and try to figure out if the gender can me figured out
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