I Always Get What I Want
By Jo Ann
@akalinus (44366)
United States
March 26, 2018 12:46pm CST
Has anyone ever stalked you? Someone was stalking me years ago. This was a guy I knew but never had a relationship with.
It started with phone calls. Every night at five minutes until 1 am, I got a phone call. He never said a word just sat there breathing. It took a long time for me to realize who it was.
Then he found me and said he was 'available.' He said it did not matter what I thought. "I always get what I want," he said.
Well, I told him to stop and he took that as a challenge. He tried to give me money and I refused. I also refused his presents.
I did not know what to do about this guy but God took care of him. He died in a hospital of one or more of his many health problems. I felt sorry for him but can't say I was sad that he was gone.
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12 responses
@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
26 Mar 18
Oh wow! It is good your stalker is gone!
I had one, it was my exbf / baby daddy.
After we broke up, he was constantly messaging me and my friends to find out where I was and all this. One time I was at the library using the computers, on AIM (instant messenger) and all of a sudden he popped up there by a new name, because I had blocked his other one, and keep asking where I was then kept making new ones, til he some how learned I was at the library, then he shows up!!! 
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@akalinus (44366)
• United States
26 Mar 18
@Courtlynn Why is he not in jail? If he hurt your child, that is where he should be.
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
26 Mar 18
@akalinus him being the babydaddy didn't matter, because he had abused my daughter - and she had been taken by the state because of it, and I dumped him because of it.
He just wanted me back, and it was not happening.
@Hate2Iron (15724)
• Canada
27 Mar 18
Good heavens... that is one scary guy. I'm glad that he is not in position to start again on the stalking. Yeah, I feel bad for him too, but he had problems..
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36847)
• Pamplona, Spain
26 Mar 18
Good thing that he cannot bother you any more too.
I got stalked for a while but when I told two men that I knew they went after him and told him to clear off and I never had any more problems afterwards thank goodness.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36847)
• Pamplona, Spain
27 Mar 18
@akalinus
I really am as well.
He was nothing but a pest and not altogether in the head I think.
@akalinus (44366)
• United States
27 Mar 18
@lovinangelsinstead21 Sometimes these people are okay and other times not so much.
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@moffittjc (128824)
• Gainesville, Florida
28 Mar 18
It's crazy how stalkers don't know the meaning of the word "no," and actually look at that as a challenge to further encourage their psychopathic behavior.
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@akalinus (44366)
• United States
28 Mar 18
@moffittjc Apparently, this guy was used to getting what he wanted, however, not with me.
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@moffittjc (128824)
• Gainesville, Florida
28 Mar 18
@akalinus Stalkers and rapists....they just don't understand that they can't have everything they want.
@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
26 Mar 18
I am sorry to know about the stalker. I thought stalking only happen in the movies or it never occur at all. Being stalked is creepy and dangerous. It might even get worst. Lucky, God intervened. 
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@akalinus (44366)
• United States
26 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 This guy was creepy. I felt a little desperate at times. It is scary.
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@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
26 Mar 18
@akalinus that is so true. And there is that eerie feeling that your every action is being watched and life is a living hell. And there are people who could not even go out because of fear. 
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@sprite1950 (30461)
• Corsham, England
29 Mar 18
I think only as a child and it was fairly harmless. I must have been about 14 and a boy I was at school with had an obsession. He even asked me to marry him! 
@akalinus (44366)
• United States
26 Mar 18
@LeaPea2417 Yes, but a lot of things in life are scary. We have to deal with them when they come up.
@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
26 Mar 18
I never had a stalker. Had encountered creeps but not stalker thankfully! They are crazy!
@akalinus (44366)
• United States
28 Mar 18
@Daljinder Maybe it is me. I left for a while.
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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
28 Mar 18
@akalinus I have been around. I haven't left.
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