I am doing ok
By Ms Rae
@carebear29 (32002)
Wausau, Wisconsin
April 12, 2018 2:41pm CST
So its been a few days since I posted anything. The last post was I lost the baby on Tuesday. My sister in law took me to ER and that is when I found out. So I lost baby at 9 weeks pregnant. I did tell Dean we lost baby, he is sad but doing ok. Dr. put me back on my Latuda my bipolar depression medication so hopefully that will help me. I am doing ok since. Husband has been depressed but keeping himself busy as needed is nice for him. Its hard losing a baby but it is part of life.
My blood type is A negative and I have the Rh factor. For those who don't know what that means this is Google's meaning....Everyone's blood is either Rh-positive or Rh-negative—positive means you have a certain protein (called antigens) on the surface of your red blood cells, and negative means you don't. If you're Rh-negative and baby's RH-positive, then there could be problems....hope that helps. I have the Rogam shot for a Rh negative person so hope that helps.
Stress was another reason I miscarried the baby. We are not giving up and going to keep trying for another child thats for sure. I have had 5 miscarriages in my lifetime (4 when I was 18 and the one now) and 3 live births. I am naturally miscarrying this child as we speak because I was only 9 weeks pregnant. Thank you everyone for the prayers. It helps. I am here and happy to talk about problems in life like this one. Thank you again!
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@nanette64 (20363)
• Fairfield, Texas
14 Apr 18
I don't mean to sound mean @carebear29 but don't you think 3 kids is enough? When you consider the possible health risks, it's not worth trying again. And the 3 you have would probably want their Mom around for awhile.
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
15 Apr 18
@nanette64 i hope my 2 oldest come around when they get older too
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@nanette64 (20363)
• Fairfield, Texas
15 Apr 18
@carebear29 I adopted out my 1st one too. It wasn't until 30 years later that we found each other.
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@Starmaiden (9308)
• Canada
12 Apr 18
Take care. I pray for your future success.


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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
13 Apr 18
I'm glad you're doing okay. I'm sorry you've experienced so many miscarriages.
My mom had one when I was little and it still makes her sad. She is also Rh-negative and back then they didn't have the shot yet. One thing I am thankful about being unable to have kids is that I've never experienced a miscarriage.
My mom had one when I was little and it still makes her sad. She is also Rh-negative and back then they didn't have the shot yet. One thing I am thankful about being unable to have kids is that I've never experienced a miscarriage.1 person likes this
@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
14 Apr 18
@carebear29 That is good. My mom got the shot after her miscarriage (it must have been made available by then) and she had my brother a year later.
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@Deepizzaguy (122070)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
16 Apr 18
Sorry for your loss. Just keep moving forward and God will reward for you later on after the loss of your baby with something even better than before.
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
12 Apr 18
i have been home. i was in ER for 3 hours
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@Ronrybs (21504)
• London, England
13 Apr 18
@carebear29 Glad you didn't have a protracted hospital stay.
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@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
16 Apr 18
I am sorry and hope you get to feeling better soon. I know you never forget.
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
12 Apr 18
That is a lot of miscarriages.. And I'm sorry you've had to go through them all.
Glad you're husband has been trying to keep busy, though, he does need to feel his emotions too.. and hope you guys have been able to cope together during this time as well..
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